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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 08 2014 at 4:14pm
I dealt with that, but the guy has a lot of self hatred, that's why. he was always making fun of women with big natural hair and I would say, their hair is healthy and long, why is that funny?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote ShadyLady Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 08 2014 at 4:15pm
Me and Steve had the same expression at 2:10.

If you fukcin with me, you gotta with my hair and all of me, end of story.

Luckily for me my boo loves it long as I don't put none of those flower headbands and ish, which was never an option for me anyway.
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Here hair looks TOOOOONS better natural...even if she straightened it would still look better than the weave.

I can understand the suprise but the level of disprespect is just obsurd.  My current SO doesn't comment negatively on my hair and even says it looks nice when it...well...looks nice.  Things like this is why I'm glad I went natural when I did so that I can say things like "I looked like this when we met".  People trying to change other folks superficiality is just stupid.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote nekamarie83 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 08 2014 at 4:19pm
been there. i wouldn't say he hated it. however, when i bc'ed, he would make jokes (eta: how i needed to comb it, how it was nappy, etc)

i had to explain to him that he wasn't funny and that i wouldn't be changing my hair, so he needed to get used to it and stfu or KIM. from that point, he dropped it. 

in the end, we broke up anyway. did i choose my hair over him? no. however, if i had, i made the right choice & have NO regrets.  


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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

I bet he liked Curlynikki hair...

I agree with this. Nikki hair ain't really kinky, plus she had it curled. What she's saying to the wife may not be very effective for these reasons.
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I've never met a guy that didn't like real hair. He's an idiot
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

I bet he liked Curlynikki hair... I don't think she did a bait and switch, she decided to go natural.



Exactly, human beings aren't static.  If you want something that doesn't change or have opinions get a blow up doll and leave the rest of society alone. 

A bait and switch is, you told him you were a childless vestigial virgin...go to her house to find 10 crumb snatchers running up to her calling her mama...changing a hairstyle is NOT that...and I reiterate that he is an idiot for caring that much about this.
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She didn't intentionally do a bait and switch but he started out with one thing that he liked and chose and ended up with the opposite.

I bet the white women were sitting in the audience just as pleased as punch. Grovel at their feet. 
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so I guess that's not grounds for divorce (to yall)
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote liesnalibis Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 08 2014 at 4:27pm
I don't like the of the three "natural" hair styles two were altered texture and the other was pinned up. Sends the wrong message.
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