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because thats how you picture me sounding? or because i seem childish? 


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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Let's say u were having sex with someone, not a serious relationship. So about 2 months in, before yall bout to get to it one night, they break this out



and they want to know ur HIV status before yall do it. Would u be offended?


No, certainly not.

The testing would be done before any intimacy however, not 2 months later.

I get annual paps.  I hate the experience also, but I'd rather have do it and be negative for CX cancer then wait a years then die from it because I was afraid of some discomfort.

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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

I feel you coco. I detest pap smears. If it makes you feel better took me three...three times before I was able to do it and this was after I lost my virginity. Luckily they changed the requirements for paps from once a year to once every two years if you are 21-29 and once every three years if you are above 30. 

but isn't that if youre sexually active?
i don't think it was always necessary for me. 
I've had sex with 1 person in the past 2/3 years.. and he was more recently 


Nope. HPV is different. The guidelines are regardless if you have had sex or not. They used to base HPV screening on your sexual history, but now they base it on your age. You are at lower risk with the lower amount of partners you have though and they did a study and found that nuns had the lowest rate of cervical cancer. 
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most pap smears don't test for hpv, they test for changes in the cervix. these changes take years to develop after an infection. that's why pap smears aren't a one shot deal. it's a continuous screening test at certain intervals based on certain risk factors. 
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Originally posted by Ladycoils Ladycoils wrote:

Wouldn't be offended at all but we're still going to use condoms even after the test results.


oh no, we don't use condoms over here 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 11 2014 at 3:29pm
actually it may have been more like 3/4 years. 

i gotta ask LB.
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by Ladycoils Ladycoils wrote:

Wouldn't be offended at all but we're still going to use condoms even after the test results.


oh no, we don't use condoms over here 
 
Yeah now I know for sure ur ass has all the stds Sick
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I would rather they bring this up beforehand

We could go get tested together

I like a guy that's cautious about stds and testing. Too many of them just don't care.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

when I was working at a dr.office, I think most people found out because they were having some type of other medical issue and their blood was tested. 

I thought you had to sign a waiver to be tested for HIV. I didn't know they could just tell you after a routine test.  Or do you mean they had symptoms and that's what made the dr specifically test for it?
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