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    Posted: Dec 16 2013 at 5:46am
So, I'm seeing a new guy.  Not quite sure why because I thought he was corny when I first started talking to him and he really isn't my type, despite the consensus among my peers saying he is quite attractive (I don't see it). Really nice.  Drove me home about an hour and a half or so out of his way.  Paid for all the dates so far and he has been a complete gentleman.  The last date I thought was going well, but he didn't kiss me or anything. 

I get a text soon after I got home and he apologizes to me, said he wanted to do more but chickened out.  He confessed that it had been a while since he had been in a relationship.  Finally, he tells me he wants to try again...and that he doesn't want me to get a boyfriend while I am home in the US (I'm out of here for winter break!)

So, how would you take that?
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Umm I don't see a problem - just go on break and relax.

I do think he will have to keep in contact with you via email etc if he wants to keep the energy up all that time.

I think that's the only thing because there can't be NO contact at all .. until you return because that's how it kind of slips away.

Give him your contact details and let him do the work.

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Sounds like he is shy. Just keep in touch while in the US and let him know when you are coming back; then let him do the work.
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I'm not feeling the fact that he text you about it versus calling to talk to you or just setting up another date and making his move. He doesn't want you to get a boyfriend while you are in the states? lol He is trying to stake claim and he didn't even try to put a stamp on it? Girl...he just wants to make sure you come back and that you don't go home and stay. He will likely make a move when you come back, but he should have just made it versus the whole 'text his feelings' crap. Corny, yes..but there is nothing wrong with a cornball. I wouldn't give him my contact details unless he asks for them. Either way, he will be blowing up your phone around the time you are due back. 
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He is shy.. I see nothing wrong with him texting you that.. Don't blow him off cause of texting instead of calling.. He has been a gentleman thus far.. At least he seems to be wanting more with you (unless it's not what you want).. I wouldn't take it the wrong way.. All guys are not the same when it comes to communication.. This guy wants to have more with you (as in he wants to make you his girlfriend) if that is what you want.. If it is what you want, just keep up the communication while you are away.

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It's funny because at this point, I'm not quite sure what I want from all this just yet. Going home will give me an opportunity to think it over. I don't know why, but something inside keeps urging me to give him a chance.
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guys are weird..when they have somethin to say they would rather text it to you...

take your time. but he needs to make the move..

at least that's what I think but I'm old fashioned..
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sounds like he wants you...
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um I dont understand people who think you should wait for them? There are no garuntees of anything live your life... if you want to keep your options open DO that~ you dont even like the guys so do both of you a favor and move on
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It's still early. I've decided to see what will happen.
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