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Originally posted by princesslola princesslola wrote:

I've been crushing on this guy for years(im 27 and he's 7 yrs older than me...just throwing that in there),he finally approached and we've been texting. So anyway I was asking him advice about an outfit or hairstyle and I said oooh u have good taste I'm going to always ask you. He told me "don't do that I'm not the friend zone type dude".

Okay so by him saying that it's telling me he like me but idk if like a hit and quit or potential relationship. I know that's not much to base it off of but I've never had a guy off top just tell me " im not the friend zone type" by me typing that it sounds mean but he's really nice.


Crushing on a guy for years?  Why have you been wasting your time?

Asking a guy for advice on your hair and dress just sounds a bit simplistic...and yeah don't take his text so seriously.  If he's really nice and you both actually talk in person go on those vibes instead.



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The guy is telling you he's not just a friend. LOL

Don't overthink this one, that can be interpreted in multiple ways. Allow him to give you more clues about his intent.

You could easily assume the man likes you likes you just as easily you could assume he just wants to hit.

That text could be taken in multiple ways which is why I think it's safer and just let him show you his true intent little by little.

But one thing we know for sure, he's not here for a passive friendship role. LOL
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Girl, for years though? Damn

Also I think your reaction to Printer Ink was rather rash. I tend to facepalm at PI at all other subjects, but when it comes to men and love, she's on point.

Her advice was sound. Maybe you didn't like it because it wasn't the ideal outcome but her words definitely weren't meant to offend.

Be careful, hun. Don't jump the gun.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Girl, for years though? Damn

Also I think your reaction to Printer Ink was rather rash. I tend to facepalm at PI at all other subjects, but when it comes to men and love, she's on point.

Her advice was sound. Maybe you didn't like it because it wasn't the ideal outcome but her words definitely weren't meant to offend.

Be careful, hun. Don't jump the gun.

Same thing I said, Printer Ink gives A1 advice.....so that goes to show the truth hurts because she got highly offended LOL

And dang I didn't realize it was years involved.....she's def wasting her time on that guy. Let his a** go
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Originally posted by princesslola princesslola wrote:

I've been crushing on this guy for years(im 27 and he's 7 yrs older than me...just throwing that in there),he finally approached and we've been texting. So anyway I was asking him advice about an outfit or hairstyle and I said oooh u have good taste I'm going to always ask you. He told me "don't do that I'm not the friend zone type dude".

Okay so by him saying that it's telling me he like me but idk if like a hit and quit or potential relationship. I know that's not much to base it off of but I've never had a guy off top just tell me " im not the friend zone type" by me typing that it sounds mean but he's really nice.


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