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'Angry Black Woman' Phrase Costs City of Atlanta $45,000 In Discrimination Settlement.

The phrase “Angry Black Woman” has been used time and time again in reference to women of color who are outspoken and opinionated.

Often times, the woman who gets labeled as such isn’t “angry” at all and coincidentally, you’ll never hear used in reference to a woman of any other race besides Black.

That being said… an Atlanta City supervisor who uttered the racially-charged phrase has now cost the City and its taxpayers a ton of dough.

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According to Atlanta’s Fox5 News,  a Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport supervisor allegedly called a female employee an “angry black woman” and the exchanged was witnessed by several co-workers.

“He routinely called her an angry black woman on the 

job when she challenged him on legitimate issues,” 

said Atlanta City Council member Michael Bond.

The woman filed a workplace discrimination lawsuit after being insulted with the term over and over again and now the City of Atlanta has agreed to settled the suit but cutting a check for $45,000.

The woman’s job evaluations had been called exemplary and the unnamed airport supervisor, who is white by the way, left city employment while the investigation was underway.

The female subordinate who filed the suit is also no longer employed at the airport, however FOX 5′s Morse Diggs reports that she has accepted a job at a different department in the city.



Read more: http://straightfromthea.com/2013/02/19/angry-black-woman-phrase-costs-city-of-atlanta-45000-in-discrimination-settlement/#ixzz2LNtaJLvk
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Originally posted by teendiva teendiva wrote:

I think it's a naive way of looking at the world by saying "[black women] are this___."

And I don't care about coming off as bitchy. I'm not a bitch, I'm very considerate and polite. However, I am not friendly. I'm over feeling guilty about it too, it's not my duty to be friendly to others, just to be courteous. I also don't care about coming off as angry. Folks call everyone who stands up for themselves angry.
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I absolutely HATE the term "Angry Black Woman." That is just another way to disregard legitimate issues we have. An old white boss of mine tried that once. I read him and told him if he EVER said that to me again, he would  be facing a lawsuit. I never heard that term uttered out of his mouth again.
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Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

I never got from any of model's posts that she was talking about ALL black men just the one's she came across.
me either, yall 2 kiss & make up
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

I never got from any of model's posts that she was talking about ALL black men just the one's she came across.
me either, yall 2 kiss & make up


Lol...I don't! and Thank you for paying attention.

My dad is (obvi) a black man - no issues there. I've dated God's rainbow & more than half have been black men ranging from lite brites to super dark. It just so happens that my fiance is the one who fit all my needs and he so happens to be PRican.

My issue is with hoodrat behavior. I'm not interested in responding to anyone who says "hey ma/shawtie/mami/flaca". I don't respond to ppl honking their horns at me. And I don't accept a random dude grabbing my arm as an "intro". I was raised to respect myself and expect a man to treat me with respect as well. As conceited as it sounds, I bring a lot to the relationship table besides a pretty face, so I expect that he do the same as well, and it starts with how he conducts himself.

And with the exception of passing construction sites or when I've been in other countries where the likelihood of running into black men is pretty low, the main race of men that exhibits this behavior has been black guys.

So, I'm not understanding why some of the men are getting butthurt on here. If you don't exhibit this behavior, then this doesn't apply to you and you're not a hoodrat.
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I come across black women who are not exactly the type to approach someone first.They will wait for you to say something to them &  then they are more than willing to engage in a conversation with you & are actually very nice.I wouldn't consider these kinds of black women "cold." They just scan the situation that they are in.Once they see that it's "safe," then they will open up.

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Sometimes well most of the time I feel like black women are part of this club like a mean girls clique and I can't get in no matter how many hoops I jump through. Catty, superficial, loud, rude, and extremely jealous. Like they don't applaud other black women for doing well or anyone who may be exceeding their own accomplishments or lack thereof. I attribute this to where I live. I don't experience it as much when I'm away from here.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I've had positive experiences I have not had many negative exposure to people in general honestly.
Even the girl I fought in jr high over something crazy lol.
We made up and hugged and since we were on the same team we got closer.

I never went through betrayals and a lot of that negative stereotype stuff.

I've been really fortunate to be around really awesome people.

same w/black men and women


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I have to admit..Sometimes I hate going to lines with black female cashiers. Most of the time I don't get a hello or anything. I got to drag a hello out of them. We don't have to have a conversation but at least greet me. It's so rude. Sleepy
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i take people on a case by case as well, but for the most part, i will speak to anyone and say hello, spark up a convo so i don't automatically go to she is a b*tch, etc. i give everyone a fair chance. 


however, most recently at work there is some new leadership, and for the first time, i am dealing with the type of black women that thinks she has to be harder on other black woman to prove a point to whites.

i just don't get it and don't like these types of women.

one of my best frieds works for the federal govt. and said it is not uncommon. she said that if she goes into a room full of people, the black women are the ones who are standoffish and not talking and the other races & men speak.  smh....



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