What are your thoughts on other black women?

What a negative thread.

Black women are e, f, g, and x, y, z...

A question like this can only elicit stereotypical responses, positive or negative


There's really nothing you can group all Black women under except for our African appearance and our shared experience of a unique struggle. I have no thoughts other than I hope we don't ever adopt the ugly entitled attitudes like that other group

rickysrose wrote: what a strange place to spend so much time if you don't like black women

lol I get it

ThatGurlD wrote: ms_wonderland wrote: ThatGurlD wrote: I love my sisters.  Rude, catty, or whatever else you want to call them.  We take so much crap from so many directions, carry the world on our shoulders hope against hope only for disappointment after disappointment and we're supposed to smile all the time?   I view other black women like I view myself.  Some days I'm on point, optimistic and life is good.  Other days there's so much pressure in the air...........and I can't get away...............  Some days I'm spewing rainbows, other days I'm skatin' without a stick.   If no one in this world gets me, I would hope my sisters would. i feel that...but the anger needs to stop being directed towards other black women.  that is my primary issue.  we understand what we go through so we should be stronger as a community.  why do we have to be ugly like white women?  that must be where this behavior was learned. Not sure I would call what I'm talking about anger.  I'm talking about exhaustion.  I haven't had many bad experiences with black women.  Is it possible that we attract what we are?  Not being funny at all but maybe those who have a lot of bad experiences have their guard up or something like that that puts off an air of distrust.   I love black men too and some of the things I read on here about other people's experiences with brothers is heartbreaking.  Then they get to black man bashing and screaming swirl.  Everyone has their reasons for feeling how they feel.  These are my reasons for loving my sisters.  Light, dark, rich, poor, single, married, gay, straight, religious or not we're in this together and it ain't all good all the time.

tbh sh*t happens for many reasons and its not only b/c you attract what you are

I do think we should work on taking out our hurt, anger and disappointment on the wrong people

why bash a black man or black woman that has done nothing to you?

Just came to say I love black women, main reason I even come to this site. Also it seems quite obvious to me that black women come in all types of different packages personality, characteristic, etc. wise.

That being said the most common issue I do run into with them is a negative attitude. I understand that the environment we live in plays a major factor. However, I think it's something, if I was a black woman I would be aware of. Just like how I know black men are locked up at a much higher rate than others so I'm very cautious that I don't spend any major time behind that wall.

Ironic that the fact that so many black men are locked up may be leading to increasing negative attitudes. Lol