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carolina cutie
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:24am |
Nita, I love your old ratchet dating stories.
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OoDles O
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:25am |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
OoDles O wrote:
I've since discarded what ever little bit of male ego I ever had so.. |
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come on TC... you know what I mean ...
You can't cook your way to my heart. I like good cooking but it aint that serious You cant offer me up the cat .. ( I dont even like sex as much as my mind does) I dont see anything wrong with asking your girl for help. (take it how you want)
Ima a man or a grown ass Male adult. Am I loyal/ respectful/Brave/ considerate ect..? thats up to you to decide.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:26am |
ShadyLady wrote:
Just like dudes hate when women try to discuss finances, I hate when a man does.
"Oh so you work at such and such? Girl, you making that good money. Shoot, I need to tell the waiter to give you the check since you the one making all the money."
Nicca, get out my pocket!
Depending on how well you know the person or the vibe, it can come off as an okay joke. But if its our first date, and I don't know you like that, chill bruh. |
Umm yeah that joke can be taken the wrong way
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:27am |
Shady...yes. I had this guy straight up say, "Oh, you a working girl, huh and you got your own car" I wanted to be like, "Nicca, I'm 30."  They always follow it up with, "You aint got no kids and you live by yourself?!"
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:28am |
I'm sure we can get it to a lower percentage.
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:29am |
OoDles O wrote:
ThoughtCouture wrote:
OoDles O wrote:
I've since discarded what ever little bit of male ego I ever had so.. |
please, explain... |
come on TC... you know what I mean ...
You can't cook your way to my heart. I like good cooking but it aint that serious
You cant offer me up the cat .. ( I dont even like sex as much as my mind does)
I dont see anything wrong with asking your girl for help. (take it how you want)
Ima a man or a grown ass Male adult.
Am I loyal/ respectful/ considerate ect..? thats up to you to decide.
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i honestly didn't know what you meant by you gave up your male ego. allbeit i came in on the last few pages or so...so maybe i missed something.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:31am |
r0ck_starr wrote:
*Belle*Femme* wrote:
9. "Not even offering (or pretending to offer) to help with the bill is a huge turn off. Don't get me wrong, I will never let a girl pay on a date, no matter how bad it is but not even offering when the bill comes like it's just expected is usually a deal breaker for me.”—James, 28BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Can't afford me? don't take me out, its just that simple. Broke n!qqas I swear!
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:32am |
ShadyLady wrote:
I hate when a guy asks "Why?" Like, trying to force me to explain why I do or don't do something.
Like if he asked me out and I said no, and he asked why. Or if they ask if they can come in after the date and I say no. Him asking why would just grate my nerves. Or if I say no sex, and asks why.
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Yeah... people who you dont know that well have no business asking "why?"
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:35am |
nitabug wrote:
Shady...yes. I had this guy straight up say, "Oh, you a working girl, huh and you got your own car"
I wanted to be like, "Nicca, I'm 30."
They always follow it up with, "You aint got no kids and you live by yourself?!"
| Yes...then they look at you like you're some rare species they never saw before  .
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:36am |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
OoDles O wrote:
ThoughtCouture wrote:
OoDles O wrote:
I've since discarded what ever little bit of male ego I ever had so.. |
please, explain... |
come on TC... you know what I mean ...
You can't cook your way to my heart. I like good cooking but it aint that serious
You cant offer me up the cat .. ( I dont even like sex as much as my mind does)
I dont see anything wrong with asking your girl for help. (take it how you want)
Ima a man or a grown ass Male adult.
Am I loyal/ respectful/ considerate ect..? thats up to you to decide.
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i honestly didn't know what you meant by you gave up your male ego. allbeit i came in on the last few pages or so...so maybe i missed something.
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yeah.. its tough to explain..
but being a man to me just means being an adult male.
Some people try to make being a man out to mean more than it really is... (females and males alike) *I probably still didn't explain it good enough 
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