What are your Dating Pet Peeves ?

What do you mean overall? You don't like suggestions?

nitabug wrote: Over_all wrote: Women that never pay for a date.. Going on and on about your ex he aint here fvck that niiqqa..  Oh my god, I dated somebody who talked about an ex from 6 years ago. I remember one day he asked me to read all of their texts and call her so I would better know what type or person he was.

Bunnyahh wrote: nitabug wrote: Bunnyahh wrote: there are many ways.  I was only talking about #9 cuz that's what the 1st 2 pgs focused on and I was talking about other ways because number 9 is stupid and the other ways are better I don't agree with it, but I can see why he said it.  I think most guys would be a lil impressed with the gesture.  It goes both  ways.  He doesn't HAVE TO bring flowers, but the gesture is nice.  He doesn't HAVE to open doors, but the gesture is nice.   He doesn't HAVE to call 1st but the gesture is nice, etc, etc...

Bunnyahh wrote: nitabug wrote: Bunnyahh wrote: there are many ways.  I was only talking about #9 cuz that's what the 1st 2 pgs focused on and I was talking about other ways because number 9 is stupid and the other ways are better I don't agree with it, but I can see why he said it.  I think most guys would be a lil impressed with the gesture.  It goes both  ways.  He doesn't HAVE TO bring flowers, but the gesture is nice.  He doesn't HAVE to open doors, but the gesture is nice.   He doesn't HAVE to call 1st but the gesture is nice, etc, etc...

None of that is the same. If I am going to do some sh*t, don't try to counter and offer the same damn service I just offered. It's redundant and rude, imo. & teeters on being manipulative.

I only let children get away with that. For instance, I took my FOUR YEAR OLD niece out for her birthday. She kept offering to pay because she had birthday money. It was cute everytime she put her little money up. She is four and doesn't understand social pragmatics yet.

Now if that was a 40 year old woman, I'd be ready to go. It's disrespectful, imo. I offered to take YOU out, why are you trying to pay?

but that is just my opinion. Do what works for you.


Edited by nitabug - Feb 12 2013 at 9:42am

Over_all wrote: wtf? They would've never got a call again... I dated a chic that did this and it bored me.. I was like how does our convo always go back to this dude... Ya'll still fvcking?? She didn't call me after that tho

LMFAO. He hadn't seen this girl in over 5 years. It was just sad. I cursed him out, but we dated for a little while longer. I have to learn how to not cuss the people I date out.


Edited by nitabug - Feb 12 2013 at 9:45am