That was for the best.
I don't know'why everyone was telling you to hang in there because if you had not had sex from July intil Sep ... depressed or not .. something was wrong behind the curtains. No, I really don't think that 2 depressed people should stay together especially if one of them felt as alienated from affection as you did. Noooo.
I do hope you are okay and I especially hope that you are not so intent on making the relationship work because it's never a good idea to invest more of yourself into a relationship ... than you are willing to lose. I mean ... if might not work but you have set yourself up for a huge fall .. if you've made it too important.
You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy anyway. In fact, contrary to popular belief
... ahh I know a lot of folks in relationships
that are miserable and have been for many years - as they are forever trying to ... 'make ít work.
It shouldn't be that much hard work involved unless something very fundamental is off the mark (but you can't tell people that.)
Anyway Good luck!
Edited by Printer_Ink - Nov 06 2013 at 10:04am