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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

People who have had loving sane mothers will never really understand a toxic mother daughter relationship.


Handshake I was thinking exactly this when I posted. 

Makes you feel like a bad daughter too because you WANT to be good to your mom and be involved with her daily and tell stories about how wonderful she is.  I really envy that.   DNA doesn't mean a damn thing to me if all you got for me is negative energy and grief.  Fortunately my mom had 4 beautiful sisters who gave me love and all the mothering I didn't get from her.  I cant stress about that crazy lady.  
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Awwww Electric......you can't help loving your mom because aint nothing like momma....
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Mom will always be mom, dad will always be dad no matter what they do.Hug
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I remember the thread you made about her and her bf...

I'm sorry it has come to this... Unhappy

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This is why I have a soft spot for Kenya Moore despite her crazy antics. She talked about her tumultuous relationship with her mother. Her mom rejected Kenya as her daughter when she was growing up and how her aunt raised her. She told her father she wanted to try again to seek out a relationship with the mom and the dad's response was to leave that alone....sad.
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put money on your phone. 
idk which jail shes at and if they use global tel link or one of the other ones.. 

if you are interested in trying to bail her out… you might be able to work something out with a bondsman and put significantly less than 10% down.. then do payments to get up to 10%. your payments can be very low.. 

 


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Sorry Midna.
 
This cant be easy to go through.
 
 
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Bail is at 50k, but don't 10% of it gets her out?
I remember your last thread about how she was purposely mean to you throughout the years, so it makes sense that one part of you has no interest in helping her.

I think you could call her often - not sure how it works about calling/receiving calls - but the prison visit might be a bit too depressing for you, and it isn't your fault she ended up there. Plus, I don't know how she would react to see you; she might verbally unleash her anger for being there on you.

Does she have an attorney already? You could pay for her but if it is going to put a strain on you financially, don't do it. If she gets a short sentence or is sent to do anger management classes and then gets back home and is mean to you, you'll really regret being in debt to help her.
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im so sorry midna, what a tough unfortunate situation 

Is the boyfriend ok?

Sounds like some mitigating circumstances and your mom's defense should be vigorous

I agree with safeguarding her stuff especially from the boyfriend and if you want her out, seeing the bails bondsman as a family 

If she gets a public defender perhaps you can help by tracking down info they can use (get advice on how to handle diff kinds of info)

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