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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 11:53am
Thank you everyone.

Yesterday was a pretty tough day and I spent all day at the courthouse but my brother in law and I got her free!

Amazingly, her asshole guy came to court even though we didn't invite him. He stayed away from us for the most part but when sh*t got important, suddenly he was running to us like he was a part of our progress.

He was making calls to no--body while we were convening and I was brainstorming and directing everyone to get my mother out. Eventually, the useless man left and after three hours of waiting after the court closed, my mother was free. All the hugs and kisses I gave her.. I know she felt smothered.

My mother isn't the nicest and I'll never be as close to her as I'd like to be to her. But she's my mother and I'd rather have her here to be free and happy in her own life.

As for the situation, she doesn't admit to trying to stab him. I'm not surprised because I only heard his side of the story and the man is infamous for exaggeration and embellishment for the sake of him looking like the victim. He'll take it to the extremes with ease.

We're protecting my mother from him so my Auntie drove her to a nearby location and I came home to get her stuff. When I came home, this scary asshole was waiting in the parking lot across from my house watching me. He was about to follow me to find out where my mother is! So I called the police because my mom is finally divorcing him and he has made threats in the past where he said if she divorces him, he'll kill her and himself.

The police came and I got to deliver my mother's stuff and her medicine in peace. I'll be staying at my mother's house where he is for the sake of watching him and watching the house since a divorce is imminent and the man is unstable and unsafe for her to approach right now. If anything goes wrong, he knows I'll be the first to call the police.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 12:09pm
I am so proud of you for taking care of your Mother no matter what happen in the past . I can't explain to you the hurt and pain that never goes away after loosing your mom . I wish my baby could see her Grand parents one more time . India looks just like my Mother . God bless you and the Family Midna .

PS. I think you should move if possible . Please have a action plan and weapon to protect yourself . Material things can be replaced as you know . Can you get someone to place a tracking device on his car and move ? My sister purchase the one for Teen drivers on her grand kids cars .

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 12:41pm
Thumbs UpGood job Midna...stay strong for your Mummy
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 12:43pm
Please be extra careful when dealing with her husband. 
Glad you feel better Smile

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 1:08pm
Is the house under his name too? Can he legally stay there? I am afraid that he will try something against you to "get back at her" for leaving him. Please be safe.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 1:47pm
Girl, please leave that house, its just bricks and mortar
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 1:50pm
Midna are you sure you should be staying there?
With all that has gone on I'm really not sure if thats the safest thing.
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 1:51pm
+1 to jam and jonsie
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 5:34pm
Midna, you are an awesome Daughter Hug.

Please do not stay at the house.  From what you stated the man is unstable, I just want you and your Mom to be safe and okay.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 01 2014 at 5:45pm
He can't steal the house. Don't stay in that house with that man. He isn't stable and he's angry. Not someone you want to be around alone.
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