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@ Tatee IA but it seems all of these articles out here will tell you that if u gain weight and need clothes...buy your size.  Don't wait till you loose weight because you'll walk around a HAM with everything bubbling and frothing out your clothes.  And I believed them.  Cause after all who wants to walk around giving big girls a bad name.

 
smh.  that was a mistake.
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besides...in most cases even if you try to be nice about it..it is almost always taken wrong by most people.  It's a sensitive issue because folks have to address why the weight came on in the first place...especially if they gained extreme amounts.
I had my boy tell me I need to get this weight off. I simply said "I know" because I know he's worried for my health just... like I nag him about his situation.  That chile got the sugar and it seems to be a domino affect in regards to his health.
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I don't say sh*t to anybody, but when I gained 10-15, people didn't have any problems telling me and telling me and telling me and telling me. Now that I lost it,  most of them haven't said anything now...smh lol..
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I used to , Now just do blank stares and give confused looks. It is a relative who I love dearly who needs to lose weight but has such a nice/nasty attitude I gave up. She is not ready for her truth, about her weight or anything involved with planet earth. If you say anything Stevia tears come so why bother.

She gets a bunch of mmmmhmm , I know and I hope that works out for you. . The whole time we together it's shade, reads and digs and ion have time for that.





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We members of the Chunky Butts Association know we are plump/chunky/chubby/heavier/downright fat as hell, but if it makes anyone feel better to state the obvious, go right ahead.
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nope

now if they ASK me if they are fat, i will tell the truth

but just randomly say "hey you know you're fat right?" nope.
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

I dunno why people act like fat people don't know they're fat



Or like its their civic duty to inform them.....
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My family comments on everything. . Down to asking what size u are "now".
Goes both ways if you get skinny too.
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No . I try to maintain a healthy weight to live longer at my age , but never stress about a few pounds . My husband will only say something if i loose too much .
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Mixer Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2014 at 9:44pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

No . I try to maintain a healthy weight to live longer at my age , but never stress about a few pounds . My husband will only say something if i loose too much .
I'd be the same way.LOL
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