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    Posted: Nov 18 2012 at 11:25am
Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.
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Originally posted by ms.blue ms.blue wrote:

Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.

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Originally posted by ms.blue ms.blue wrote:

Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.

^^^ This all day long ..They are not worth you.  You have to love you and it doesn't matter what some 'immature boy/man' thinks.  Someone that cares about you will like you for you, braids and all.  Don't ever change yourself to try and please someone else.  You like your braids wear them proudly you are hot with or without them it comes from within.  ....


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^^^^^ well said .
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Keep in mind that you're 17, and these men are acting like children. 

From their point of view, I can understand what they're getting at. Braids, imo, and on myself, can often make a woman appear younger, and more child-like. Perhaps that's what they were trying to, ignorantly, get at. Maybe with braids you look more innocent, and young. 
However, are they right in that braids can't be sexy, hot or attractive? Hell no. 

They have no right to talk to you as if your looks are for their benefit, and that you have to present yourself in a way that's pleasing to them. Ignore their ridiculous commentary. 

You do not need long, flowing, silky hair to be hot, or attractive. It's a common, false, belief. 

If you like wearing weaves, go for it. If you prefer braids, go for it. Ignore the commentary coming from immaturity and ignorance. 
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I'm almost 17 too and I hear the same stuff from guys. I'm kinda sassy so I say to them "Do you pay for my hair? No, so shut up!"
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Wow that must be hurtful. Don't acknowledge them anymore, that's so arrogant.
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babygirl boys that age (well even the big boys lol) at that age only have one thing on their minds and your hair aint it
 
forget what they say wear your hair how you want to and what makes you feel great
 
i cant stand men who feel the need to give their op on  a womans hair
 
 
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Those men are a hot arse mess. About face and keep walking the opposite direction.
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