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Wow so sad
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dammit CT

this is terrible
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He was somehow prepared in the event he was rejected .

Can we say premeditated

Too much rage.    
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terrible

negros too fragile these days
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote goodm3 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 25 2014 at 3:58pm
And this is why i have a  big problem with all this "everyone is a winner" mindset in schools 

Learn how to take your L and move on. 
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That spic ain't no damn negro!

And females are allowed to reject without consequence.
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May she RIP. Unhappy
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I remember I rejected a guy that asked me out to the prom. He started calling me a B!tch and all kinds of names.But before that he was always super nice to me. I think he thought, " How dare she reject me, I was super nice to her". It really threw me off.
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

I remember I rejected a guy that asked me out to the prom. He started calling me a B!tch and all kinds of names.But before that he was always super nice to me. I think he thought, " How dare she reject me, I was super nice to her". It really threw me off.

There's pages of the whole "nice guy" thing. Smile I learned a lot LOL
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I blame this "boys will be boys" bullshit mantra. That crap is HARMFUL. Not only that, but I also blame our media constantly heralding guys as the protagonist hero and the female in his eyes is some prize to be won.

This kid stabbed and murdered this girl but in his eyes, he probably feels justified. Yes, the kid is crazy, but his thought process in reaction to the rejection is disturbingly common.

Something is very wrong when a woman has to brace herself in defense when she's about to reject a guy's advances.
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