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    Posted: Dec 23 2016 at 4:41pm
One of my friends can't have children, she's had 5 pregnancies and miscarried 4 times. The last pregnancy the baby was stillborn.  A year ago she received a text message from a young lady (19)  who told her that she is pregnant by her husband and sent her all of the screenshots where he said he was planning to divorce my friend to be with her. She confronted her husband and he admitted to everything. He said all he wants is a family and the girl can give him that. (My friend and her husband are in their mid 30s).

They went to counseling at church and the pastor told her to accept this baby because it is God's way of bringing a child into her life because she has prayed for a baby, the church has prayed for a baby, everybody prayed for her to have a baby! Now she will have her baby.  Well yall....she called me yesterday to tell me her husband won the custody case and they now have full custodyConfused....she said the next steps is for her to officially adopt the child.

So....is my friend crazy....or did God answer her prayers?
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She and her husband need to go see the movie Fences on Xmas day.
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Hmm, If I was in her shoes I'd probably would have divorce him, but then again she couldn't give him a child and that may be the only reason he cheated was because he wanted a family. Since she let that slide and fought to stay with him, then maybe this is God's will for her to have a kid.

What's up with the bio-mom that she wasn't fit to raise her own child? I'm curious.


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It wont end well!
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Pastors seem to always be trying to get women to accept bullsh*t


Aint no damn way. I couldnt even change that child's diapers knowing how it came into the world
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I can't comprehend with any of it , they couldn't just adopt so who is going to exlplain this to the child ,when he or she gets older . I would stop going to that church and seek other advice
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I wonder if the pastor would advise a man to stay with a woman who had gotten pregnant by another man🤔
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Dont rrust in man, if you have a relationship with God follow what you feel he is telling you instead of turning to man for the answers.
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What do you mean is your friend crazy?

If your friend feels good about herself then she made a self-empowering decision, so i say good for her.
If she's staying in this situation but doesn't feel good about it then i need for her to have the courage to value herself.

I'm too far removed from the story to say what God's will is. Did your friend ask God for his will be done?








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Originally posted by marie67 marie67 wrote:

I wonder if the pastor would advise a man to stay with a woman who had gotten pregnant by another man🤔


Better her than me, I can not raise the mistress baby, also if it was reversed he would not stay, well I doubt he would.
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