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1st thought: Girl you better shut all the way hell up about Luke, the possible abortion...err'thang!Stern SmileLOL

Seriously tho, support your friend for now and decide whether or not you want to be involved in anymore Melody/JD drama in the future. We've all been in those sticky friend situations before.
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Originally posted by BaileyAlexandria BaileyAlexandria wrote:

Printer-^Rude. Party of one. Rude. your table is ready.

Thank you Ladybird! Thats that Mermaid hair makin' a girl glow!

Now back to printer. She actually has alot of girl friends. Most of whom she's known for 10 years plus. I'm all for giving advice, but you're advice is kinda leaning towards the slightly rude side. Now you've turned me in captain defendagyal!
 
Really, I am not trying to be rude. These are just words you are reading ... you are not hearing my voice etc. Why are you more focused on my words being 'rude' than what I am trying to say? I think it is easy to ignore someone's advice .. just because you don't like the way it's being delivered - but you are the one in this sticky situation. Shocked
 
 
Yes, we have all had girlfriends like this in the past ... and the relationship never comes to a good end. So I am careful with the kind of people I associate with. They just keep doing stuff like this so you (as a nice understanding person) end up trapped in a friendship where the person is always putting you in akward situations. Besides ... why would it be okay for you to be with a 'devious' friend to begin with? That's not okay in my book. Confused
 
I think you are very young not to 'see' things in people so that you can anticipate what might happen in the future. These kind of things show a person's character afterall.
 
Anyway, you made this post to 'de facto' ask for advice. You didn't say that you wanted advice that conformed to your beliefs about this p erson ... you just put it out there and I've given you my advice.
You will have to learn the hard way about such people.


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[disclaimer] This is just what I would do. You did not ask for our advice, so I'm not telling you to do this Just sharing.[/disclaimer]- 
I would tell JD. I have done it in the past. My friend told me she was going to have an abortion and I struggled with it so much in my Spirit (I am pro life, but it was beyond that. It was like I knew that she should have it for some reason). I was vexed because me and this girl were NOT friends at all at first, but we grew a beautiful friendship. I told myself, if I somehow get his number, I'm going to tell him. Well, I think our other friend has his work number and she gave it to me and we called and asked for him. She spoke Spanish, while I only knew so much, so I started off the convo and my friend finished it. (She wanted to be able to blame me for telling him lol) She told him that our friend was preggers, and was going to abort it. I still remember he let out a heavy sigh and said "Lo sabia" (=I knew it). And he just kept saying it. She was mad at us at first, but she ended up marrying him and having that child and another child with him. *insert dreamy anime look*
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Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Im sorry but you and ol girl are not friends. Yall met THIS summer.......That is not even enough time to be considered friends in my book. She got a little bit too cozy with you to have just met you because the jacked part is you want JD. Why else would you be feeling some sort of way about him? (You felt some sort of way about him from the very minute you met him). Any real girlfriend would have no problem taking her friend's secret to the grave, protecting that secret from everyone. Why would you care about keeping this secret from him? He's not your friend nor your man.   Yall are not friends.

I agree with all of this. Talking bout he is such a nice guy! U don't even know him that well..everyone is nice the first few times u meet them. So maybe deep down u have a crush on him.
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Your friend is a ratchet mess and a horrible girlfriend and just because guys do things does not mean women should do it . She sounds like she has no moral compass and will screw you over in a heart beat but hay good luck hope she don't ever steal your man . I just can't be friends with jerks or ho3s .
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Hmmm. Okay well I appreciate the input from some of you. I'm still giggling at being in Love/crushing on JD. I'm going to a wedding today and the bride was a little bridezilla during the planning stages and I felt bad for the groom, does that mean I want him too?!?!!? Wacko  But seriously, thanks for the input Hug I needed that little vent.

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Originally posted by iluvmihair iluvmihair wrote:

[disclaimer] This is just what I would do. You did not ask for our advice, so I'm not telling you to do this Just sharing.[/disclaimer]- 
I would tell JD. I have done it in the past. My friend told me she was going to have an abortion and I struggled with it so much in my Spirit (I am pro life, but it was beyond that. It was like I knew that she should have it for some reason). I was vexed because me and this girl were NOT friends at all at first, but we grew a beautiful friendship. I told myself, if I somehow get his number, I'm going to tell him. Well, I think our other friend has his work number and she gave it to me and we called and asked for him. She spoke Spanish, while I only knew so much, so I started off the convo and my friend finished it. (She wanted to be able to blame me for telling him lol) She told him that our friend was preggers, and was going to abort it. I still remember he let out a heavy sigh and said "Lo sabia" (=I knew it). And he just kept saying it. She was mad at us at first, but she ended up marrying him and having that child and another child with him. *insert dreamy anime look*

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