| nekamarie83 wrote:|
you're wonderful and i love that we can just talk.
as i've remarked previously, i hate that bhm (and people generally) tend to equate listening to agreeing. you can listen to (maybe even validate) points contrary to yours and still disagree.
in my humble opinion, yes. and the one time i genuinely did this, i regretted it.
however, not because of the other person. because i should've done better and treated them the way i'd like to be treated.
yes! ive been working on the bolded...its essential to life really..
and the red is a good point...ignoring them is actually kinder than how they deserved to be treated imo...
it takes a lot for me to get to that ignoring phase. i dont just up and ignore somebody...more than likely we've already talked about it before...
i realize no one is perfect and i factor that into to whatever the situation is...
however if that still doesnt help... youre just a messed up individual...and once i realize that... its a wrap...
i dont keep those people in my life
if i were a messed up individual..i would expect to be ignored too
you really have to do a WHOLE lot to push me to that point...more cons than pros