| coconess wrote:|
ok i dont remember crazy font sizes and colors and things like that..
i dont remember you being too extra..
eta, i think that not slinging insults and calling ppl out their name is huge… it separates the ones that want drama and to start a problem over the ones that are just talking (albeit, passionately as it progresses and ppl start getting kinda riled up)
i could see someone deciding to stop responding once someone takes it to that name calling/rude place.. but prior to that its a discussion to me..
anyways.. whatever makes you happy.. we see discussions differently.
Ok well let me take it here, as a Christian it's not my job to argue religion with anyone. I was taking on a role I had no business taking.
Most of the threads I went hard in were religious threads, and arguing defeated the purpose and actually countered my point.
You might not consider it arguing but there are plenty here that I went back and forth with that will agree that I indeed took it too far.
I dont think I ever went back and forth with you.
I stepped on a lot of toes. And I didnt care. Which was a BIG problem in itself.
As long as I said what I needed to say. I didnt care who thought what, or who's feelings got hurt or who got offended.
^^^this is not what Christianity is about.
Im not the perfect Christian, nor will I ever be. But I am learning, and I've learned that this is very unpleasing to God. It does more damage than good.
Jesus didn't argue and bicker with anyone to follow Him. So why am I doing it.
I took it to the extreme.
But hey, I was 18 at the time...never known an atheist or anyone who believed in anything outside of Christianity in my life....so you live and learn.