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Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I don't think I know the difference between asking for help and being a burden to someone else. 

I'm like the go-to person in my family and friendships, so I'm always in helper mode. And unless I'm being taken advantage of, I never have looked at someone as being a burden when they've asked for help.

But, when I need help with something I'm automatically inclined to figure it out without the help of anyone. I feel like I'd be a burden to someone else by asking for help with something I could figure out myself. It's not a pride thing, I don't think. Idk what it is.

welcome to the world of us virgos lol.... it's not a pride thing, it's a virgo thing
i dont know if you've heard that kinda old song "super girl"

"I'm super girl and I'm here to save the world, but I wanna know who's gonna save me."

I have this same problem..this is why im cutting out helping people who have never helped me at some point.......it makes it less awkward for me to ask for help if I need it.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

lol yes! I tried to warn you about cancers a few pages back

They are the only sign I cannot handle being around very long.

They cling on to the past and will hold major grudges like children...

And they take offense to ev-ery-thing... huge cry babies


yessssssssssss

again, i know i can take offense to a lot and be defensive.. but i can take a step back.. look at things.. and be like, 'okay i was wrong.. okay it wasnt that serious.. okay i overreacted..'  (not saying i do this 100% of the time.. i have pride..) after most of my arguments i think like, 'shoulda just ignored.. didnt need to be that serious' and sometimes i will talk to the person about it to resolve it.. even if i dont feel completely at fault. 

they are so sensitive and act on emotion… 
aint no way….. 



exactly. 

i knew a cancer that held a stupid grudge against me for months because I rolled my eyes at her..Confused
she deserved it though

mind you this is a grown arse woman and i was a teenager at the time

and then out of the blue all of a sudden she acts all friendly with me like nothing happened

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the cancer women are also messy

they run their mouths on the phone like no one's business...most of the time about nothing

i had to block another cancer recently from my facebook and phone

she would blow my facebook and phone up just to talk about nothing for 2 hours...wheretheydothatat?

i dont like that..this aint middle school

dont call me unless you got a reason..then we can talk

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-preach gif- 
ConfusedWacko

I've read that they are literally my opposite (whats virgos opposite?) and i really liked that.. i deal with many people that are nothing like me but I'm diverseish.. and opposites attract
but no. i can't do them.. i can't do people who hold grudges.. especially over BS. we need to be able to move on.. life is short. most of the time with them.. it took me contacting them.. or a LOT of time.. 
maybe with a lot of something else in their chart.. too childish. 
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OMG yessss MD I agree about cancer women. They will tell others' business in a heartbeat...and be secretive and private w/their own things. At my last job, I had to start ignoring this girl because all she wanted to do was talk about her best friend, best friends man, who's dating who, who's slept with who. Entirely too gossipy.

@coco Pisces are our polar opposite. I was in a long-term relationship with a Pisces. I came to the realization that it would NEVER work. Even though opposites attract, we were TOTAL opposites...to the point that it caused friction and tension in our relationship.
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EmbarrassedI'm so late with this thread..I've been so busy--hope you've all been keeping well

anywhoo, about the kids? I definitely don't want them any time soon...I love babies so much but that's different to wanting to start a family of your own

I don't think people realise how massive and sacred having kids is..you can't just bring them into the world and let them raise themselves.

you're stuck with them for life, you actions will affect them for life--they don't stay babies forever and that scares the sh*t out of meLOL

I don't see myself having kids before I'm 30 and being nigerian..you can sometimes get the side-eye for doing that but IDGAF..I'll gladly be an auntie or cool big sis thoughApprove


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pisces is our opposite

i love pisces but i think mainly it's because pisces is my rising sign...

and yea cancers are childish, most of the time you can't try to talk good sense into them because they're too busy throwing pity parties for themselves...

i threw in the towel a while ago...lol


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interesting@ pisces being your opposite… i wouldn't have thought that.. i would have thought like leo or gemini or aries or one of them jerks… 

I'm very compatible with virgo and pisces.. more so virgo though according to everything I've read.. but i like pisces.. they're up there. 

this guy that i really really liked was a pisces.. and i typically like them period. males and females.. 
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Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

OMG yessss MD I agree about cancer women. They will tell others' business in a heartbeat...and be secretive and private w/their own things. At my last job, I had to start ignoring this girl because all she wanted to do was talk about her best friend, best friends man, who's dating who, who's slept with who. Entirely too gossipy.

@coco Pisces are our polar opposite. I was in a long-term relationship with a Pisces. I came to the realization that it would NEVER work. Even though opposites attract, we were TOTAL opposites...to the point that it caused friction and tension in our relationship.

yes!! just messy for no reason!

and always trying to play the victim, never wanna own up to anything.

cancers<<<<LOL


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the insecure ones are super competitive too

always trying to "top" somebody
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