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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...

yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...


Weird, because I think it's selfish to have kids just so you can pass down your bloodline, and forget that you're also passing down your debt, stress, etc.

There's too many f*cked up kids in this world being had by people who don't want to be "selfish".
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i realllllly want chipotle...that guacamoleStern Smile

dont need it though...i have food here...

oh well *drives to chipotle*




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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I already un TOL you, don't be cawlin me take care of no damn pickney dem!
Nah.

*hearty laugh*


Keep f*cking with me, and see if I don't pull a Carmen Sandiego on your ass.

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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Keep f*cking with me, and see if I don't pull a Carmen Sandiego on your ass.

Keep on. Sleepy
*foot nudge*

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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...

yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...


Weird, because I think it's selfish to have kids just so you can pass down your bloodline, and forget that you're also passing down your debt, stress, etc.

There's too many f*cked up kids in this world being had by people who don't want to be "selfish".



chile...
and then wonder what happened....






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but really-- don't have kids until you're ready... if ever.

kids require a lot of time, patience, understanding, guidance, etc and i don't think people are ever really fully aware how consuming that is. i think it's impossible to be fully aware until you are in the situation. 

in addition, you can't predict or plan. you have to be willing to learn on the job and learn damn quick. even then, even if you did everything "right", your offspring could still become a lackluster, careless or even horrible person. 
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true that neka


sn: ciara is a cute preggo

i saw a pic of her a few hours ago....


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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

but really-- don't have kids until you're ready... if ever.

kids require a lot of time, patience, understanding, guidance, etc and i don't think people are ever really fully aware how consuming that is. i think it's impossible to be fully aware until you are in the situation. 

in addition, you can't predict or plan. you have to be willing to learn on the job and learn damn quick. even then, even if you did everything "right", your offspring could still become a lackluster, careless or even horrible person. 


They're not aware.  All they're thinking of is having a lil mini-me to play dress up with, and take shopping, and bake cookies with.  They aren't even thinking about the medical bills, the possibilities of things like learning disorders and illnesses.  Those things take the patience of a saint, and most people can't handle that kind of stress within themselves, muchlessmore their children.

People with eating disorders, and mental illnesses, and issues that they refuse to acknowledge and seek help for pushing all that stigmata on their kids...they're not even thinking.  Like, seriously?  You have bullemia and aren't seeking help, but pop a kid out--cuz that fixes bullemia.  Then you have your kid trying to take their own life everytime they eat a Cheerio because they hear/see you making a big deal out of something that they shouldn't even be stressing over...like, seriously?

Having kids is not a damn game, and I'm tired of silly asses and immature f*cktards playing with innocent baby's lives just to pass on their demented genes.    Can't even pay off your damn credit card, figure out what you want to be in life, clean a damn dish properly, keep a man or woman, or move out your damn mama's house, but wanna have a baby? 

foh.


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she said demented genesCryDead

clc you should write, do you?Heart

i think i remember you saying you did...
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