| nekamarie83 wrote:|
but really-- don't have kids until you're ready... if ever.
kids require a lot of time, patience, understanding, guidance, etc and i don't think people are ever really fully aware how consuming that is. i think it's impossible to be fully aware until you are in the situation.
in addition, you can't predict or plan. you have to be willing to learn on the job and learn damn quick. even then, even if you did everything "right", your offspring could still become a lackluster, careless or even horrible person.
aware. All they're thinking of is having a lil mini-me to play dress up with, and take shopping, and bake cookies with. They aren't even thinking about the medical bills, the possibilities of things like learning disorders and illnesses. Those things take the patience of a saint, and most people can't handle that kind of stress within themselves, muchlessmore their children.
People with eating disorders, and mental illnesses, and issues that they refuse to acknowledge and seek help for pushing all that stigmata on their kids...they're not even thinking. Like, seriously? You have bullemia and aren't seeking help, but pop a kid out--cuz that fixes bullemia. Then you have your kid trying to take their own life everytime they eat a Cheerio because they hear/see you making a big deal out of something that they shouldn't even be stressing over...like, seriously?
Having kids is not a damn game, and I'm tired of silly asses and immature f*cktards playing with innocent baby's lives just to pass on their demented genes. Can't even pay off your damn credit card, figure out what you want to be in life, clean a damn dish properly, keep a man or woman, or move out your damn mama's house, but wanna have a baby?
Edited by CLCNY20 - Feb 13 2014 at 3:31pm