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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

i agree CLC

i used to want kids....

but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want

freedom is everything


Yes!!! This, exactly!

I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties.  Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!" LOL

By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out.

I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers.

I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with me.



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it feels like im reading from a future version of meLOL

these are my exact sentimentsHeart


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I spoke to my stepfather about it (he's a Virgo as well) and he told me that's usually how Virgos are geared to think, but only if they make it out of the whole "I met the one" phase in their early 20's.  He said by the time we get to 25 or so, we stop focusing so much on love and focus on career, because we look around at those who gave up college, and work, etc. for their kids and are struggling like a muth, and we start hyperventilating, lol.

That's a fear of the sign--not being able to pay bills, and having peek-a-boo expenses, and sh*t.  We need stability, and self-control, and kids are the total opposite of that, lmfao.

I think if I even become a millionaire I wouldn't want to have children.  I just think you need to really want that deep down in your soul and be okay with all the what-if's and scary scenarios, and I am not.
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people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...

yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...
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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I already un TOL you, don't be cawlin me take care of no damn pickney dem!
Nah.

*hearty laugh*
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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I spoke to my stepfather about it (he's a Virgo as well) and he told me that's usually how Virgos are geared to think, but only if they make it out of the whole "I met the one" phase in their early 20's.  He said by the time we get to 25 or so, we stop focusing so much on love and focus on career, because we look around at those who gave up college, and work, etc. for their kids and are struggling like a muth, and we start hyperventilating, lol.

That's a fear of the sign--not being able to pay bills, and having peek-a-boo expenses, and sh*t.  We need stability, and self-control, and kids are the total opposite of that, lmfao.

I think if I even become a millionaire I wouldn't want to have children.  I just think you need to really want that deep down in your soul and be okay with all the what-if's and scary scenarios, and I am not.

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people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...

yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...


Weird, because I think it's selfish to have kids just so you can pass down your bloodline, and forget that you're also passing down your debt, stress, etc.

There's too many f*cked up kids in this world being had by people who don't want to be "selfish".
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i realllllly want chipotle...that guacamoleStern Smile

dont need it though...i have food here...

oh well *drives to chipotle*




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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

I already un TOL you, don't be cawlin me take care of no damn pickney dem!
Nah.

*hearty laugh*


Keep f*cking with me, and see if I don't pull a Carmen Sandiego on your ass.

Keep on. Sleepy
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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Keep f*cking with me, and see if I don't pull a Carmen Sandiego on your ass.

Keep on. Sleepy
*foot nudge*

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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:



people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...

yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...


Weird, because I think it's selfish to have kids just so you can pass down your bloodline, and forget that you're also passing down your debt, stress, etc.

There's too many f*cked up kids in this world being had by people who don't want to be "selfish".



chile...
and then wonder what happened....






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