Virgo Women Random Thoughts

ModelessDiva wrote: i agree CLC i used to want kids.... but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want freedom is everything

Yes!!! This, exactly!

I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties.  Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!"

By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out.

I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers.

I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with or for me.


Edited by CLCNY20 - Feb 13 2014 at 2:12pm

CLCNY20 wrote: ModelessDiva wrote: i agree CLC i used to want kids.... but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want freedom is everything Yes!!! This, exactly! I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties.  Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!" By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out. I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers. I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with me.

CLCNY20 wrote: I spoke to my stepfather about it (he's a Virgo as well) and he told me that's usually how Virgos are geared to think, but only if they make it out of the whole "I met the one" phase in their early 20's.  He said by the time we get to 25 or so, we stop focusing so much on love and focus on career, because we look around at those who gave up college, and work, etc. for their kids and are struggling like a muth, and we start hyperventilating, lol. That's a fear of the sign--not being able to pay bills, and having peek-a-boo expenses, and sh*t.  We need stability, and self-control, and kids are the total opposite of that, lmfao. I think if I even become a millionaire I wouldn't want to have children.  I just think you need to really want that deep down in your soul and be okay with all the what-if's and scary scenarios, and I am not.