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coconess
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:04pm |
idk how people can want to not have kids.. to each their own though..
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ModelessDiva
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:09pm |
im 21.. i said things at 18 that are different now that im 21
but at this time, i just dont see children..that could change when im 30 or it may not...
freedom really is everything. to me anyway
i do see adoption maybe...that pops in my mind once in a while....but not anytime soon...probably in my 40's or 50's
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CLCNY20
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:10pm |
ModelessDiva wrote:
i agree CLC
i used to want kids....
but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want
freedom is everything |
Yes!!! This, exactly! I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties. Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!"  By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out. I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers. I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with or for me.
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GoodGirlGoneGr8
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:11pm |
coconess wrote:

idk how people can want to not have kids.. to each their own though.. | This. I've dreamed of having kids since I was a kid...lol. I'm simply not in a position to do so financially...
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:13pm |
CLCNY20 wrote:
ModelessDiva wrote:
i agree CLC
i used to want kids....
but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want
freedom is everything |
Yes!!! This, exactly!
I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties. Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!" 
By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out.
I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers.
I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with me.
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yes!!! yes!! yes!! yes!!! X10000000000        
it feels like im reading from a future version of me
these are my exact sentiments
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CLCNY20
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:22pm |
I spoke to my stepfather about it (he's a Virgo as well) and he told me
that's usually how Virgos are geared to think, but only if they make it
out of the whole "I met the one" phase in their early 20's. He said by
the time we get to 25 or so, we stop focusing so much on love and focus
on career, because we look around at those who gave up college, and
work, etc. for their kids and are struggling like a muth, and we start
hyperventilating, lol.
That's a fear of the sign--not being able
to pay bills, and having peek-a-boo expenses, and sh*t. We need
stability, and self-control, and kids are the total opposite of that,
lmfao.
I think if I even become a millionaire I wouldn't want to
have children. I just think you need to really want that deep down in
your soul and be okay with all the what-if's and scary scenarios, and I
am not.
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:22pm |
people are quick to call women who dont have children selfish...
yes i might be selfish for not having a child, but having one just because "i feel ready" when my circumstances say otherwise is a different level of selfishness...
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nekamarie83
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:27pm |
CLCNY20 wrote:
I already un TOL you, don't be cawlin me take care of no damn pickney dem! |
Nah. *hearty laugh*
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Feb 13 2014 at 2:27pm |
CLCNY20 wrote:
I spoke to my stepfather about it (he's a Virgo as well) and he told me
that's usually how Virgos are geared to think, but only if they make it
out of the whole "I met the one" phase in their early 20's. He said by
the time we get to 25 or so, we stop focusing so much on love and focus
on career, because we look around at those who gave up college, and
work, etc. for their kids and are struggling like a muth, and we start
hyperventilating, lol.
That's a fear of the sign--not being able
to pay bills, and having peek-a-boo expenses, and sh*t. We need
stability, and self-control, and kids are the total opposite of that,
lmfao.
I think if I even become a millionaire I wouldn't want to
have children. I just think you need to really want that deep down in
your soul and be okay with all the what-if's and scary scenarios, and I
am not.
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agreed
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