| ModelessDiva wrote:|
i agree CLC
i used to want kids....
but the older i get the more i appreciate being able to do what i want
freedom is everything
Yes!!! This, exactly!
I remember wanting to have twins so badly when I was in my late teens and early twenties. Then by my mid-twenties, I was like, "meh...maybe just a little girl--I wanna do her hair, and watch Annie with her!"
By my late 20's, I just realized I had too much going on, and I think it's disgusting to bring kids into a hectic situation just for the hell of poppin' them out.
I know too many people who just think humans are automatically supposed to have kids because they reach a certain age (these are the ones that are seriously mentally imbalanced, but they wanna talk about having kids, foh--have a therapy session then see where you at, Crazy), and them kids are not being taken care of, and are going in to school and terrorizing other kids and teachers.
I can't be responsible for no Columbine type situation just so I can please the people who will not be taking care of said kids with
Edited by CLCNY20 - Feb 13 2014 at 2:12pm