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^^^ feeling indebted to a person doesn't take away your right to say no. since you're mentioning that you don't know how to say no, consider first clarifying your appreciation, but put the boundary down by saying that you don't feel comfortable with with they're asking. however, that you wouldn't mind or would be ok with ____.  that way you've offered a solution and compromise. 

now, technically, you don't owe anyone an explanation for your no. it's your (everyone's) right to say no and the other person has to suck it up and deal.  i just find it works well with persons not comfortable saying no to have a "reason" until they get used to saying no. 
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Thanks Neka. I'm going to respond and acknowledge my late response. I'll help her this time, but I will have to let her know that this is the limit.

She's given my number out to her co-workers to ask me for help, and I think it's tacky. I need to address that as well.

It's sad because I've never asked her for anything. She offers...I accept, but there are always strings attached. I think I'm going to stop accepting her assistance altogether.
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you're welcome, goodgirl. 

your plan of action sounds solid and should it come to the latter, it's definitely an option. you feel grateful to her, not her coworkers or anyone else she wants favors for. best of luck with it.
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Sunday Jan 26 2014

If you knew for certain that you could have the best of something, then you certainly would not accept second best. Would you, Virgo? Of course not. You may have settled recently for second best, or maybe even less than that. And that may be because you don't believe that you can have what you really and truly want. Maybe your ego has been bruised recently because of some kind of letdown, and that has done some damage to your aspiration. So let this be a reminder that you not only deserve the best, you can have it.
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neka whats going on relationship/romance wise for virgos right now Sleepy
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^^ say what now
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