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Thank you Jesus!

Everything's ok now?Smile
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

And why do you miss the old me?
Bickering and arguing are not good qualities to possess unless you are on a debate team. There are more tactful ways of getting a point across.

I still post my opinion's here and there and discuss things but I refuse to argue page after page, thread after thread anymore. 


i dont think you werent tactful.. and i wouldnt call it bickering most of the time.. you didnt resort to low blows and calling people names and being catty like many ppl.. you just were opinionated and headstrong.. 
now, it seems like the second someone questions you you'll be like, 'im not gonna argue my opinion..' and thats it.. 
but it'll be like.. it wasnt even gonna necessarily be an argument.. it could have been a simple discussion. and sometimes with detailed, complicated things like religion for example.. its gonna take a lot more than 3 comments to get your point across or to make a good argument about something.. 
i dont think theres anything negative or bad about discussing/debating things for pages as long as it doesnt turn ugly… 

I see what you are saying but a lot of the threads I "went hard in" turned ugly in my opinion.
No I didn't call names and sling insults, but that's not the point. 

It's just totally unnecessary in general for me to be forcing my views on anyone. 
And I don't consider most of those past threads as discussing, I see it as arguing.

I consider what we are having now a discussion. Which is perfectly fine.

Most of the threads especially my first ones I used to use all these extreme font sizes and different colors and other animations when going back and forth with someone.

Unnecessary. I look back and smh.

BHM has taught me a lot. 
And life has learned me. It really has.




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Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

    

Thank you Jesus! 

Everything's ok now?Smile

yes!!ClapHeart
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ok i dont remember crazy font sizes and colors and things like that.. 
i dont remember you being too extra..

eta, i think that not slinging insults and calling ppl out their name is huge… it separates the ones that want drama and to start a problem over the ones that are just talking (albeit, passionately as it progresses and ppl start getting kinda riled up) 
i could see someone deciding to stop responding once someone takes it to that name calling/rude place.. but prior to that its a discussion to me.. 

anyways.. whatever makes you happy.. we see discussions differently. 

 




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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


I'd just rather be happy and enjoy my life peacefully than to argue every minute of it.Smile

And it suits me well.Heart


if discussing things youre passionate about ever made you unhappy… i understand why you wouldnt do it anymore.. 
i dont think you argued a lot… at all….. i wouldnt have thought your life was unpeaceful over discussing things on a forum. 


I left a lot of stuff out and made a long story short..that might have caused this confusion because that was just a general statement^^^

I wasn't referring to BHM, I meant life in general.

And even still arguing over BHM does requires energy...typing all those paragraphs and essays, replying to every post and reply...chilee....

Keeping up with who said what to who and why..and when and where..and who's toes I stepped on and who feelings got hurt..#aintnobodygottimeforallthat

I'd rather just embrace all our differences and move past it.Heart

Long story short....The way I relayed my "messages" were unacceptable. They were. And I've apologized to many people on here over the years, and will continue to apologize to anyone who still might be offended.

It wasn't right at all.

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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

    

Thank you Jesus! 

Everything's ok now?Smile

yes!!ClapHeart
Good!SmileHeart
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

ok i dont remember crazy font sizes and colors and things like that.. 
i dont remember you being too extra..

eta, i think that not slinging insults and calling ppl out their name is huge… it separates the ones that want drama and to start a problem over the ones that are just talking (albeit, passionately as it progresses and ppl start getting kinda riled up) 
i could see someone deciding to stop responding once someone takes it to that name calling/rude place.. but prior to that its a discussion to me.. 

anyways.. whatever makes you happy.. we see discussions differently. 


Ok well let me take it here, as a Christian it's not my job to argue religion with anyone. I was taking on a role I had no business taking.

Most of the threads I went hard in were religious threads, and arguing defeated the purpose and actually countered my point.

You might not consider it arguing but there are plenty here that I went back and forth with that will agree that I indeed took it too far.
I dont think I ever went back and forth with you.

I stepped on a lot of toes. And I didnt care. Which was a BIG problem in itself.

As long as I said what I needed to say. I didnt care who thought what, or who's feelings got hurt or who got offended.

^^^this is not what Christianity is about.

Im not the perfect Christian, nor will I ever be. But I am learning, and I've learned that this is very unpleasing to God. It does more damage than good.

Jesus didn't argue and bicker with anyone to follow Him. So why am I doing it.

I took it to the extreme.

But hey, I was 18 at the time...never known an atheist or anyone who believed in anything outside of Christianity in my life....so you live and learn.Beer

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Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

    

Thank you Jesus! 

Everything's ok now?Smile

yes!!ClapHeart
Good!SmileHeart

i know...im so relievedClapCryHeart


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That's what we were hoping for.SmileHeart
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

   
Thank you Jesus! 
Everything's ok now?Smile
yes!!ClapHeart
Very great!!

Glad you got some peace of mind, md.
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