| coconess wrote:|
but modeless i miss when you used to be a little more fiesty..
you used to be very strong minded about certain things (like religion) and you had no issue going back and forth to try to get your point across..
where did she go and why..?
You know what? I appreciate this question coco.
Im glad you asked.
To summarize a very long story:
I changed my ways. I realized after arguing the same thing over and over with the same group of people, that you can't force anyone to believe or think a certain way. People will do what they want. And that's ok.
There are people who genuinely want answers and there are people who truly don't want to learn but only want to criticize and belittle and I won't tolerate that anymore.
The people who genuinely want answers PM me and I've always and still do respond to those.
My views haven't changed. I've just learned to be more diplomatic and less forceful about it.
And why do you miss the old me?
Bickering and arguing are not good qualities to possess unless you are on a debate team. There are more tactful ways of getting a point across.
I still post my opinion's here and there and discuss things but I refuse to argue page after page, thread after thread anymore.