CLC, Mars Cancer/Venus Virgo
You want stability and reliability in your relationships, but you also require emotional bonding and intimacy. Your partner is of immense importance to you, and you are helpful and kind to him or her. You are affectionate and sensual rather than wildly passionate. On the one hand, you can be dreamy and devoted, and other times you can be somewhat aloof and cool. You are at your best when you are encouraged by your partners—you need a lot of positive feedback—as well as when you know they trust and respect you. You are loyal to a partner who has won your heart. You go about getting what you want in life in an indirect manner, and you value all that is unspoken but known in bed. You are very private when it comes to matters of the heart, and you want, more than almost anything, to always know where you stand with a partner. You are drawn to partners who are simple, practical, and down-to-earth. Flashier types are not your cup of tea. You are at your best in a committed or at least long-term and secure partnership. You have an intense fear of rejection and humiliation when you are in a relationship, although it is unlikely you will reveal this part of your personality right away (if ever!). It takes you quite a bit of time to trust someone. You are a caring, giving, and warm partner and lover, although it can take time for you to open up to love and to feel free enough to express your warmth. Your partners find you somewhat hard to reach, but essentially quite committed and protective. In love, security is important to you, and a tender touch is always appreciated. You want to count on your lover, and you also want to feel that her or she is yours. A loyal and warm partner is much more appealing to you than a flashy, outgoing one whom you may not trust.
Your romantic and sexual natures are similar, but varied enough to make your love life quite exciting. For the most part, you know what you want in love relationships. Your charm is subtle and natural. While you don't generally come on strong, you don't need to. There is a buzz of understated sexual and romantic energy about you that promises a good time.