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Prairieflower1960 
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 Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 5:25pm |
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I personally didn't think it was an "attack"...just some were rude. I've been watching these posts for quite some time and there just seems to be a few who act like they're not intelligent enough to give a straight answer (regardless of what the question is), and not sound like they have a chip on their shoulder. And if someone else would like a better description, all hell breaks loose with overreactions and snippy replies. Maybe it's the way they word what they're tying to say, but for the most part it leaves me shaking my head wondering why. On the other hand, some of these folks who attach pics want to know other people's opinion on it and people will tell them it "looks great", when it looks like crap. I merely chalk it up to not having enough empathy for others. Is this site not a place to ask questions and expect replies that do not sound like someone is scolding a toddler? If it is, then it needs to change.
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 5:26pm |
 Becky wrote:
Wow ... you guys thought this was an ... 'attack' and we are full of ... 'hate'?  Seriously? The question has been asked and answered several times now - I think you guys are just mad because you didn't get the answer you wanted. I'm afraid you guy's over-reaction to the posts here .. says more about what's going on in your heads ... than what's going on in ours. In the end - no one here is in any way obligated to share anything with you and if you don't have the good grace to charm information out of people ... that's on you. Geesh, talk about a sure way to never learn who our vendors are. Hee hee! Good luck with that!  |
God, you're so right! How dare I, I completely forgot my place. I'll never make it anywhere in life without knowing your vendor! It's not as if this isn't the only wig forum on the internet or that EBay and AliExpress don't exist along with TONS of archives on this very forum to point me in the right direction or anything. Woe be unto me, for your almighty graciousness has banned me from learning her perfect, dependable vendor.
I hope that was charming enough for your liking 
Look, I honestly hate being a smart-ass and I wasn't raised to be rude, but it seems to me that unless there's a lot of ass-kissing done, some folk won't be happy, and I am not and will never be an ass-kisser. I asked a question and tried to foster a discussion based on the answers I got. Why is this even still going on??
Edited by StellaGirl - Dec 26 2012 at 5:31pm
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 5:55pm |
Whatever, I think you guys will not get any info. from anyone with your attitude - using your current nickname. You have burned that bridge. It's your problem though .. not ours - you are the one that asked for our help. Move on.
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Prairieflower1960
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 6:35pm |
I asked one time eons ago and learned my lesson realizing how some people are. I didn't need any info...just making an observation and trying to help someone else. Oh well, I guess with " MY attitude", there are some that just can't, or won't, handle the truth and/or can't handle honest opinions. I'll just continue reading and laughing at the idiocracy of the comments here. With that being said...I pray that you all, and your families will have lots of happiness and success in the coming new year and years to come.
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 8:49pm |
StellaGirl wrote:
Lwhite1960 wrote:
You are not lurking hard enough! There is a list in the "additional newbie information" sticky. Cmon now, do we have to hold your hand and lead you like a little kid?
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As I mentioned in my original post, I found no straightforward information regarding why sharing vendors is so secretive around here. I am not asking for vendors nor for my hand to be held; perhaps I miscommunicated my intentions with this post or you misconstrued my question with my wanting to not search for accessible information? Either way, the information I sought (why vendors are kept so secret) wasn't made readily available in a sticky or in the archives. How is this me wanting my hand held? |
Here are a few examples: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=site%3Aforum.blackhairmedia.com+secret+vendors+not+sharing
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 8:51pm |
chatnoir wrote:
StellaGirl wrote:
Lwhite1960 wrote:
You are not lurking hard enough! There is a list in the "additional newbie information" sticky. Cmon now, do we have to hold your hand and lead you like a little kid?
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As I mentioned in my original post, I found no straightforward information regarding why sharing vendors is so secretive around here. I am not asking for vendors nor for my hand to be held; perhaps I miscommunicated my intentions with this post or you misconstrued my question with my wanting to not search for accessible information? Either way, the information I sought (why vendors are kept so secret) wasn't made readily available in a sticky or in the archives. How is this me wanting my hand held? |
Here are a few examples: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=site%3Aforum.blackhairmedia.com+secret+vendors+not+sharing
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You just did all the work for them, there shouldnt be anymore complaints
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Prairieflower1960
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 8:29am |
Lord have mercy! 
Edited by Prairieflower1960 - Dec 27 2012 at 8:30am
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:24am |
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I hope you ladies realize that this type of conversation only happens on BLACK hair media. I am a member of several hair sites more geared towards European (read:White) ladies and these conversations never happen. I seriously wonder why. (not being sarcastic with that.) They freely give up vendors and sites to order from. Answer the same questions over and over again. I'm just saying.
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Prairieflower1960
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:28am |
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Amen to that! I am also a member on several sites and I have never seen these types of snide remarks. That's why I also wondered why on here it's different.
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