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    Posted: Nov 10 2013 at 12:37am
I have an ex who added me as a user on his credit card. He gave me a card with my name on it to use as I please. We've been broken up for a while and he never asked for the card back. I still use the card because i know he never looks at mail he just gets his mail and thrwos it away. He pays the bill automatically out his checking account and he always pays way more than he has too. The card doesn't expire until 2017. If he does look at the bill one day will I be taken to court. If I am taken to court cant I just say he gave me my own card and never took it back? He should have cancelled the card when we broke up. I don't need all the judging please. but I know i'll get it anyways


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how long have you been broken up?  how much have you spent?  why did you think it was still appropriate to spend his money?  

since he added you as a user then you're not stealing but you're also not paying your portion of the bill.  if i were him i would take you to court and tell them the understanding was that you'd be paying for your purchases and you stopped doing so after the relationship ended.  the fcked up part is that you only use it because you know he's not on top of his business.
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Stop using that card and throw it away. How would you like it if he did that to you. The only way I would condone you using the card is if he owed you money and that was your only means to getting it back!
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It's been a few weeks, and I've spent about 70 dollars. He can't say we had a payment arrangement  I never paid the bill. He always paid for my stuff, and the money comes out of his acct.  I'm just going to ask him if I can still use the card, if he says no i'll give him the 70 dollars and cut up the card, I will also pay for whatever I spend.


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Unless you still giving him some coochie you better cut that card up and throw it in the trash. Hell is wrong with you girl?  Aint nothin free in this world but air.
 
 
 
But legally you are still entitled to use the card. If your name is on the card you are fully authorized to make those purchases. Now this may be morally wrong, and you probably deserved to get body slammed. But legally he cannot take you to court.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 11 2013 at 1:21am
weird situation. same thing happened to me. my ex gave me his card to do as a pleased..but then again we were and had been broken up for a while...and i spent way more than 70 bucks. more like 600..he never asked for it back neither. and also we were on good terms so... but he gave it to you..

actually ignore all that. you might get into trouble listening to me lmfaoLOL


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I hope you do as you said and ask him if it's ok to use the card.
I don't think you should keep using it. He could be watching your expenses and when it is "big" enough, take you to court.
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You know it's wrong so why even ask? lol
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 11 2013 at 7:48am
Originally posted by beantown617 beantown617 wrote:

It's been a few weeks, and I've spent about 70 dollars. He can't say we had a payment arrangement  I never paid the bill. He always paid for my stuff, and the money comes out of his acct.  I'm just going to ask him if I can still use the card, if he says no i'll give him the 70 dollars and cut up the card, I will also pay for whatever I spend.

you're going to ask a man.. that you're not dating.. if you can continue to spend his money…? Confused

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Brilaw Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 11 2013 at 8:46am
do you really want advice on how to best handle this?
the fact you posted this online says to me you know you're in the wrong
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