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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting a rich man. This question is so broad, what is a beautiful woman? I've seen guys who think their woman is beautiful and I'm like Dead but he really thinks his girl is extremely attractive. How can u hate on that? He sees the beauty in her that puts butterflies in his stomach.

I think we can get more specific with who rich men are. And usually the women who seek out rich men have ulterior motives. They want a rich man not to be financially stable, but to have excess money to buy material objects. I could careless but I don't think they are the same thing when u really look at examples unless u only wanna look at celebrities and the groupies that chase them.


 
I don't think 'rich' is any less broad. What one woman calls a 'rich man' another woman would say he's just   'doing ok' .   LOL
 Some women want 'A' nice mansion, some women require 3LOL

by beauty/rich I meant whatever those things are to you/(general).
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but in OP fake scenario--

 if guy is a billionaire, I think we'd all agree that's RICH LOL

if girl is a model, more than likely,  a  few p;eople find her BEAUTIFUL.  LOL


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


what's wrong with wanting a rich man?


wrong wrong wrong
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i'm guessing when you do something soley for one's own benefit and thoughts of only ones self...or for evil intentions... guess...lol



it's how world works though

for example I use this board for entertain purposes

I'm sure I don't give what I get on here and that is okay with me

I honestly think I didn't use enough people in my past
 
ummm i believe i see what you mean but a relationship with an actual person is a far stretch from one with an online forum or tv show for example.
 
personally, i would love to be at the point in my evolution where i can say that i don't get enjoyment from watching vapid displays of foolywang real or make believe.  but i am not.  as i am sure i have gotten more than i have given from a few situation in my life.
 
that said, i most certainly am at a point in my evolution where i can honestly say that i am aware and committed to trying my best not to do this (get more, relatively speaking that is, than i am willing to give, that is) with my family, friends or people that i otherwise care about or am presenting myself to want to care about... 


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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

When did it become a bad thing to love a beautiful woman.
 
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if you look like flava flave and you want a beautiful woman to make you feel better about yourself because you think people will think you are actually better because you were able to get a beautiful woman...well... 
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

This question is so broad, what is a beautiful woman? I've seen guys who think their woman is beautiful and I'm like Dead but he really thinks his girl is extremely attractive. How can u hate on that? He sees the beauty in her that puts butterflies in his stomach.


 
I don't think 'rich' is any less broad. What one woman calls a 'rich man' another woman would say he's just   'doing ok' .   LOL
 Some women want 'A' nice mansion, some women require 3LOL

by beauty/rich I meant whatever those things are to you/(general).
 
exactly.  and we don't even have to up the anty to # of mansions.  there are some women who think they hit the jackpot when a nicca offers up a hot pocket and hairdo...Dead
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TC, yeah. I was just being silly w/ the 3 mansions. Figured AfroK would come in and co-sign me LOL -- cause I know how he does it.


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but speaking of hairdos /getting hair did, that's exactly what I said to my sister about soap girl. She's thinking ahead. Most girls want a shopping trip or get hair and nails did. But home girl said I'll get a ring, spring wedding and a summer house n the Caymans. iWept. lol


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my sister was mad lol
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

brothas seem to have an issue with attractive black women having high expectations. it's perfectly ok when white women do it. not to make this racial but yeah... 

that's why i think the topic is interesting, purp lol
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