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Wait were talking about using? How do you use someone for their looks?
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Nvm. Dp.

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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


Wait were talking about using? How do you use someone for their looks?


Trophy wives, women being objectified for sex.
But even in a loving, committed relationship, there is some amount of "using" that goes both ways. If you're not gonna get your needs met, you might as well go it alone. What's good for the goose...
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


Wait were talking about using? How do you use someone for their looks?


Women complaining of being objectified, trophy wives...
But then again, I'm the opinion that there is some level of using that goes both ways in every relationships. People wouldn't get their needs met otherwise and you'd might as well remain alone.

ok i see..i dont see that as using though...idk
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

She's not attracted to the guy(Devon) physically ?


he tried to strike up convo and she shrugged him off

-are you having a good time? like the hotel?
-Why are you going to introduce me to the owner?

After he told her he was owner she gave him 100% of her attention. I wasn't mad.

(but that's irrelevant LOL)
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Most people use each other in some way or another in a relationship anyway. The situations portrayed in op's post are equivalent in my opinion, even though men often deny this to all heavens. Why would an attraction for money be more vilified than an obsession with Sports Illustrated looks?


I don't get it
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:



Using anyone for anything is distasteful!

 


agree. but is one worse?
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

She's not attracted to the guy(Devon) physically ?



Money is an a potent aphrodisiac for some people though
Maybe she's turned on at the thought of rolling but naked in the green pasture, what's wrong with that?   


yes. her frown turned upside down when he said he owned the hotel. And I'm sure she was sending her current a dear john text after finding out exactly how nice/rich he really was LOL.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:



  OH DANI-GAH RICH!!!… HELLS YEAH I LIKE HIM NOW!! 
What you think?



this is how it was.

and it's a soap so you know they made it obvious LOL


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Its ok as long as he knows what it is but if he is falling for her and she thibks hes just a bag of money than shes wrong. Also you cant use someone for their looks.
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