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i'm going to retype this all over again (sigh)...
 
Dear blah,
All i'm going to say about that situation is that i hope it was worth it.  If that's the type of woman you want, then do you.  She couldn't be 1/4 of the woman that i am.  Then again, it's obvious you coudn't handle a woman of my status, hence your "relationship" with your stank ho.  You say that all men cheat, i say that all men who don't know how to appreciate what they have or don't have the balls to tell their woman what's up cheat.  You claim to be a real Brotha, yet i was lied to the whole time.  Real?  I think not.  But anyway, thank you for being my wake up call.  I can't thank you enough for that part.  I will never get so consumed with somebody else that i'm not thinking straight for myself.  You were the first man to love me, but you won't be the last.  Face it, i'm a good catch.  but you missed the ball.  Game over.
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Originally posted by BonaFideDiva BonaFideDiva wrote:

ooh this thread is DEEP!

Dear Big Monkey:

You are so cute! I love you to pieces. Thank you for coming into my world. Whether you know it or not, you have changed my life. Your motivation and competitive spirit awakens mine. Your drive continues to impress me and that is why I always try my best to encourage you when I see you slowing down or when I see that something isnt right with you.

I love it when I wake up in the middle of the night to go potty you ask me where Im going. I love how u cuddle up next to me in your sleep...even though with your heavy azz arms I cant move. I love it when you try to sing cause u know u cant, but you still try really hard anyways. I love it how you laugh at yourself.

I love how everytime I change my hair, do my make up differently, buy new shoes, or anything you notice. I love how you dont hold grudges. I love it how you hold my hand when we're walking.

Our relationship and connection is awesome. I will whoop your azz in chess one day!

Loving You,
Little Monkey

P.S. If you dont propose to me by March 2010, Im out! Smile


 
 
 
LOLLOLLOLLOL Romantic letter but funny as hell. Big%20smile
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Dear MR. CityVIxen
 
 
I have never felt the way about a guy the way I feel about you. You know me so well ; my weakness's and strength's. I admit I never thought about your feelings and how you were hurt. Sometimes us women forget that men can feel hurt and unloved as well. Our lives are on different levels right now and it upsets me when I realize that no matter how hard we try to work it out , our situation is in GOD's hands. I still remember that day you walked me outside and I teared and you wipe it away with your finger and held me tight outside forever. Your big arms made me feel like no matter what happened between us you'd always be there. I have seen your good and bad and I thank you for everything. Writing this makes me emotional because I know that you are one African-AMerican Man to cherish. You will always have my heart. I wish you the best in life. GOD BLESS YOU babes. ~ CV
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Originally posted by Miss Kitty Miss Kitty wrote:

Dear Exes,
Hell no I dont want to be friends. So stop calling me.
 
LOVE,
ME
 
 
High five on that one!!!!
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cityvixen, its so true!
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Dear F-

Not until my second BF did I realize that you were NOT my first love.
It was a great realization.

AND

Dear J-

We were good while we lasted. But we both knew it wasn't gonna last forever.

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Originally posted by BonaFideDiva BonaFideDiva wrote:

Dear _______:

If you liked it then u shoulda put a ring on it.

Stop calling me! You are still on punishment, LOL.

Nic
 
Dear _DJ, Baby Daddy, Joe, Damieon, Jay, Ben, the other Ben, David, Jonathan & Gerald_____:
 
Please see the above letter...
 
and PS: Stop lookin @ me all crazy when you see me out & about on a dateAngry....your lady friend seems not to appreciate your "accidental" passin by my table/chair/area...and like you said before "T, you're too dayum good to be lonely or with a sorry azz dude"
 
ty for the advice....you guys are soooo right!WinkLOLLOL
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Dear Jamaica,

.............I saw a man that looked a lot like you yesterday. Everything from his facial hair to his build and skin tone was a perfect match. Ironically my Work Spouse was taking me the local Chinese dive for a quick bite after I had voice my craving for something different. Shortly after we stepped out of his custom Pt Cruzer and onto the lonely city street my eyes locked with your doppelganger.

         While WS shuffled around in his pockets for quarters to feed the hungry meter that waited eagerly next to his car, I found myself into staring nervously into the local baller’s jewelry shop. Behind the shop's glass, your twin peered back at me in a way that suggested he knew me. Thoughtlessly, yet subtlety I craned my neck this way and that looking for the one thing that would determine if it were you or not...Your prized silver Lincoln ls, with Jamaican vanity plates in the front, back, and flag on the rear view mirror.

        Alas, it was in vain. Your car appeared nowhere in sight and before I could investigate further, WS gallantly returned to my side, dashing as a tall, chocolate, bald Clark Gable in a leather trench coat and felt fedora, and escorted me inside the disappointing "restaurant". While WS and I idly spoke of how we would never eat in a building we both determined the health department meandered through with beer goggles, I quietly ruminated about the open door. As we never really established a definite ending of our very short lived yet painfully drawn out lust-ationship.

 

        Can we be honest? You never loved me. You only loved what I could do for you. I was a symbol of hope. The Jesus within a beacon shining brightly drawing you like mosquito the comforting yet eerie glow of a light on the front porch. You sought the light but eventually became consumed with the flames the flesh provides, causing me to die in pieces at a time. Fearing my life I had to leave but you would not accept my rejection and wept openly in the warm summer’s night air or in the darkness of your bedroom as I explained why we cannot see each other any more.

          Somehow I would find yourself in your arms again though as I couldn’t or wouldn’t allow myself to be finished with the torment that was us together in “love.” Until we fell again and I would run from you, tears streaming down aching cheeks from my large crimson stained eyes until I made myself sick.

          No one understood it everyone from my mother to my pastor tried to will us back together but it simply is not scriptural, nor would it be healthy. I cannot be with you yet I can hear your laugh, smell your cologne, taste your tears and curry chicken, feel your skin beneath my finger tips, and see your face…everywhere. You haunt me.

          I am writing this because I need closure yet I know I can’t speak with you. I am fragile. Hearing your strange mix of white boy with Patrois thrown in good measure and added seduction, would completely ruin my progress. You see I am not the same woman I was even a week ago. Strong as porcelain, just as coveted, and ironically easily broken. Because of this I need you to know, I cannot see you. I cannot hear you. We cannot speak. I’d be lying if I said my flesh does not want you. However my soul detests you and I cannot date you again.  You are bad for me and you know it.

 

Please give me the peace you know I deserve and believe me when I say: Good bye.

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dEAR a,
I HATE THAT AFTER A WEEK WEN U RETURNED TO MY LIFE, YOUR LEAVING AGAIN. YOU HAVE NOT MATURED AT ALL..AND YOU DONT HAVE TO SELL ME A DREAM THAT IS OBTAINABLE WITHOUT YOU.

I WANT YOU ...BUT I DONT NEED YOU..

-JAY..MMM MM FRIDAY WAS FUN THO WASNT IT ;)
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Dear Hubby, tommorrow it will be 5 months of matrimony for us. This coming February it will be 9 years. I just want to thank you for being my ROCK through these trying times I'm going through. Because of your love and God's I'm coming through.
 
I thank you for letting me be angry at the world. I thank you for letting me mope. I thank you for allowing me to have the time to become renewed in Christ Jesus. I thank you for letting me go through these feelings alone(per my request) even though it hurt you because I was hurting and you couldn't fix it.Thank you for allowing me to complete my dream. Thank you for working three jobs, earning a promotion, and doing the DAMN THANG!
 
There were sooo many times in our relationship that I didn't think that we would be husband and wife. I was too serious: You showed me how to laugh. You were tooo carefree and irresponsible: I showed you how to buckle down and get yours responsibly.
 
Sweetie, people may think we are total opposites when they hear our backgrounds; but we know the truth: You, me, and Little Boy have been blessed by God and ordained to ride this wave called Life together- FOREVER! I love you Deeply and Eternally!
 
Love, Your Baby.
P.S. This is not newlywed bliss talking. These words overflow from my soul to yours.
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