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    Posted: Aug 21 2014 at 6:38am
sounds like a form of ocd imo

'All I can think about is the bacteria': Model who worries she'll never find love because she is terrified of kissing and hugging

  • Erica Valentine, 36, hasn't had a date in more than two years 
  • Philemaphobia means the phobia of kissing, often because of fear of germs 
  • The model asks her boyfriends questions like when they last brushed teeth


 A model who has a rare condition that makes her terrified of kissing fears she may never find love again.

Erica Valentine, 36, suffers from philemaphobia, meaning she is petrified of kissing and becoming affectionate with people.

The part-time model and photographer, from Clapham, south London, constantly makes excuses not to kiss or hug because she is so frightened by the thought of passing on germs.

Erica Valentine has a rare condition called philemaphobia, which means she is scared of kissing boyfriends. (Man is posed by model.) 
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Erica Valentine has a rare condition called philemaphobia, which means she is scared of kissing boyfriends. (Man is posed by model.) 

Erica has had three previous boyfriends but has found it increasingly difficult to hold a lasting relationship because of the rare phobia.

She was married for eight years but eventually split after falling pregnant in 2011, when the condition was putting too much strain on the relationship.

Erica said: 'I was looking on the internet about the condition and it seemed to be what I had.

'Something just happened in my mind when I started dating that I just couldn't stop. 

All I can think about is bacteria which must sound really weird to other people.

Ericas fear of kissing means she has been unable to go on date for more than two years 
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Erica's fear of kissing means she has been unable to go on date for more than two years 

'So many things go through my head so it makes kissing impossible for me.

'My most recent boyfriend left me because he found it too difficult.'

The mum-of-one gave birth to daughter Khrystal, who is now two-years-old, after splitting up with her most recent partner and has never kissed or been intimate with a man since.

Erica, who was born in Brazil, moved to the UK in 1999 to work but has found it difficult to date from a young age.

She said: 'I've only ever had three boyfriends and I ask them all sorts of questions such as when they last brushed their teeth or if they smoke.

'Without that I feel too scared to get close to them and it's the main reason my ex-boyfriend left me.

Erica, pictured here with daughter Khrystal, two, hasnt had a boyfriend since she became a mum 
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Erica, pictured here with daughter Khrystal, two, hasn't had a boyfriend since she became a mum 

'Even though we had sex I still found it very difficult to kiss and that's why we had to break up.

'I was too scared to kiss him so I'd constantly make excuses and now I find it impossible to even think about making love - let alone do it.

'I feel weird and strange because when I see couples kissing I think about all of the viruses and bacterias they are passing on to eachother.

'Everyday things like sitting on the bus or the tube can be hard for me because I don't like being in physical contact with people.'

The part-time model is so obsessed with hygiene that she asks potential dates (posed by model) a list of questions, including when they last brushed their teeth 
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The part-time model is so obsessed with hygiene that she asks potential dates (posed by model) a list of questions, including when they last brushed their teeth 

Erica said the thought of passing on germs is so terrifying that she has to brush her teeth five or six times every day.

She said: 'I can understand why someone would find it all too much because it's a lot to take in, which explains why I have been single for so long.

'I used to wear braces too so I used that as an excuse not to kiss people.

The 36-year-old mum is so obsessed with germs that she struggles to get intimate with me. Her strict hygiene standards means she brushes her own teeth five or six times every day 
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The 36-year-old mum is so obsessed with germs that she struggles to get intimate with me. Her strict hygiene standards means she brushes her own teeth five or six times every day 

'I still wear a retainer but if people get close to me I just use that as a way of putting people off kissing me.

'It's really hard for me to be in big groups. which is why I don't go clubbing or anything else like that.

'Brazilian people are naturally very affectionate and like to hug and kiss people all the time but it really frightens me.'



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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:


Erica, pictured here with daughter Khrystal, two, hasn't had a boyfriend since she became a mum 

'Even though we had sex I still found it very difficult to kiss and that's why we had to break up.

'I was too scared to kiss him so I'd constantly make excuses and now I find it impossible to even think about making love - let alone do it.

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@ bunz Didn't many bhmers say they could fucck but not kiss someone?

She is an idiot

Who she modelling for?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

@ bunz Didn't many bhmers say they could fucck but not kiss someone?

She is an idiot

Who she modelling for?


i remember that threadLOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Qualified Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 21 2014 at 8:16am
I hope she has a day job outside of her delusions of grandeur as a model... on another note, her daughter is beautiful!
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

@ bunz Didn't many bhmers say they could fucck but not kiss someone.


I do this all the time
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cute kid!

troubled mother!
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

@ bunz Didn't many bhmers say they could fucck but not kiss someone.


I do this all the time
male or female?
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LMAO @ those pictures... maybe she just doesnt wanna kiss her fella...

She put up with it to get the baby, now she's good...
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