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    Posted: Jan 27 2013 at 2:57pm
Pretty much. I'm not sure how to go about finding some. Not that race really matters, but I want to diversify my group of friends.

I almost did the "meetup" thing - it was a natural hair group, but I decided not to go because it's too intimidating...

I should've just gone.
I have issues.


I went with my cousin last year to a Halloween party - some of the women there were kind of hood - which is fine. They were funny as hell, but I felt like I wouldn't really fit in with them. I didn't want to look like an "Uncle Tom".  Some of the stuff they were talking about, I've never heard of, or couldn't relate to.Confused

I'm certainly not trying to sound siddity - if anything, I'm country as hell. 

I lurk on here {and go to the salon} to get my daily dose of "blackness"  - whatever that means. 

It's cool. I enjoy it. You guys crack me up: I'm over her squirtin' snot juice out of my nose sometimes.

Does anybody feel what I'm saying? Other than Chicago, the Midwest isn't exactly the most diverse place. It's easier said than done to just pack up and dip Stern Smilesome place out east...



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move out of Iowa
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I did that already - I'm in Minnesota.
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not all black people are hood.

you will never get true diversity living in Iowa. so yes, perhaps moving would help. in the meantime, i think you should go ahead and try the meetup group again.  just get out there and meet folks.

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Originally posted by Iowabred&fed Iowabred&fed wrote:

I did that already - I'm in Minnesota.

i think you need to be somewhere not so cold. blacks dont do well in extreme cold.

can you go to another meetup?
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Do the meetup thing... try it and then come back to report
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Yeah. I think I might do that
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How old are you? Do you go to college? if so, see if there is an african american club on campus
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go to the natural meet up thingy. 
hang out with your family more. 
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