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you just met the guy in may. i think you went back into to the dating scene expecting too much too quick.  i think that his talking about "his" kids, wasn't comfortable to you because you wanted it to be about the two of you, forgetting that he was trying to be friends, get to know you, etc.  you wanted more.  he showed he wanted to pump the breaks by canceling that cabin trip.

just chalk it up as part of the game.  enter differently next time with the next guy. get to truly know him, learn him and determine if it is a guy you want to move forward with. 

don't enter the FWB with him. you will get caught up in your feelings and end up hurt.

just chill out,  date, and get to "know" people.  its all good. everyone goes through the dating ups and downs before finding the right guy.  just don't get desperate where it clouds your judgement. 


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Spoken she can't be FWB.........he ain't checking for that pucci......
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Zo, Sandra and TC

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OP gonna come back and tell yall how he was beggin for her illnana and/or had no issue with a fwb set up... he was just sleep when she texted him....but she said nnnnnno sir...watch
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Dating is not all that complicated, you made things harder for yourself.  I am going by YOUR statements, it appears to me that you need to build your self esteem.  You should not set out in any relationship, only desiring consistent "D".
You spoke about health issues, concentrate on addressing whatever the health problem is.  If you meet someone that you like, please do not rush into anything.  It is not all about getting whipped by the almighty "D".  start slow, if you and the man are compatible build on the relationship.  Do not make things complicated, it takes time, work and effort to make any relationship work.  Both parties must be committed to make any relationship work.
It is a no go for you and the Teacher guy.  You blew that one.  Claudie is old I need my sleep, I cannot go into specifics right now.  Take care, get well! 
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damn, i've never sent a sexual text and got no response.  ngas is too thirsty for that but hey.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

No the main thing is......she thinks she dumped him........bless yo heart....that man dumped you....when he didn't take you to the cabin it was over...
and then he didnt respond to last night's sext....mercy me Cry


Chiiiiilllllllllllllllle.......the fact that he doesn't even want that pucci.........that shyt gotta hurt.



 

lawd.  can't even give it away...her soul is burning slow...Cry


Guuuurl.......

LOL aint nan one of yall sh*t
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

No the main thing is......she thinks she dumped him........bless yo heart....that man dumped you....when he didn't take you to the cabin it was over...
and then he didnt respond to last night's sext....mercy me Cry


Chiiiiilllllllllllllllle.......the fact that he doesn't even want that pucci.........that shyt gotta hurt.


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Originally posted by Iowabred&fed Iowabred&fed wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

if u just want consistent D, get a FWB.

those arent hardto find.

u keep changing your story and it's confusing af


I confuse myself. Here's why: I ask too many people in real life and I'll get too many conflicting opinions. I'll post on here and get too many opinions. Idk. I think i'm just going to charge it to the game and start ovr with someone else.
you are better off joining LSA, they have an anonymous button that you can ask any embarassing question or story without folks knowing your identityConfused
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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

Originally posted by Iowabred&fed Iowabred&fed wrote:

Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

when did dating become so hard? do you even enjoy it? lawd



Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees. What kind of question is this??


what kind of op was that?

just seems like you're making things complicated...


I know. I kinda felt his pain at being with you just by reading it.

No offence OP but you sound like you wined to him the way you wined in your post.

If you're not feeling it let it go. All this talking makes you sound like you don't know what YOU want.
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