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those pool covers can be dangerous for a lot of reasons. But for rain water, they needed a cover pump or a mesh cover so rain water could drain off.


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Yes, two year olds can open locks.... we recently put a lock that requires more manipulation and about Ann inch from top of door. Lil bee was getting chairs and unlocking doors. We had a chain lock and she got her brothers drum stick and hit at it until it moved enough for her open the door. I hide and watched her.

Once my mom put my son to sleep and then laid beside him and she fell asleep. Well he woke up and apparently slide down the other side of the bed. She had a long size bed. He wondered through the house, pulled all her papers onto the floor in jet office, dumped all the washing powder onto the floor, etc...my mom never heard him. He scared her when he touched her arm to say he was thirsty. She was like thank God he tore up stuff in the house and Mont go for the front door because she leaves on as busy residential street.

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Eta.. mom has king size bed.
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both of these stories are heartbreaking
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yes .
I wish I hadn't listened to that 911 call for the FL twins. Cry The caller, the one who found them  (not related) was crying uncontrollably


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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

so sad..

this is the pool shown in news articles
http://media2.wcpo.com/photo/2014/04/09/Pool2_1397046212087_4030423_ver1.0_640_480.jpg


Unless theres a mesh that isn't very visible, that railing won't stop a kid from climbing over or thru it.  Also there isn't a fence in the surrounding area either that I can tell...too dangerously easy access...
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

OhMyCurlz:


So youre saying you were there and actually watched a small child just wonder off.....I'd be mad too....


If Im with a friend I am always mindful of where their kids are....because if something happened to that child and I could have prevented it I wouldn't forgive myself....At some point you have to think about whats best for the helpless kids....not...."I don't watch kids under 4"
....no...I don't think anybody would stand and watch a small child just....wonder off. Confused

I would have watched him had I known that she wasn't. She was standing right in front of him. She later walked off. There was no legitimate reason as to why she had to walk off, she just did. When you want someone to do you the courtesy of watching a child that they did not give birth to, you could at the very least ask or verbalize the fact that you are going to walk off so that said person knows that they should watch your child. She didn't do that. Some people who have children have a nasty habit of taking advantage of friends/family in that regard, at times she is apart of that ilk.

You dont get them luxuries of walking off when you have a child known to be disobedient. 

I don't watch kids under four with behavioral problems; that's my new rule since that little incident. I just dont. Im not accustomed to that sheit. Back in the day when my momma said don't walk off, don't open this door, etc...I didn't do it. I'm not about to deal with me taking a 5 minute piss break only to find a 3 year old pushed a chair up to the fridge and drank the whole pitcher of koolaide. Nope. 

Aiden aint helpless. 


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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Her old ass needs to be in jail....that's ridiculous....I'd be so angry at my mom if my babies drown while I was on my honeymoon....she prolly volunteered to baby sit too...

thanks sandy! the article state they were gone for an hour.

What if she never volunteered to watch them but they went to run errands and kinda sorta gave her the responsibility?

Serious ?: OP these kids died but with the black lady/job interview kids in car they didn't, any reason you weren't so ______ towards grandma and/or the parents? 

Tongue in cheek: The parents should have used BC if they couldn't find (or afford) a suitable person to watch their kids. The grandparents (both sets) should have used BC too, so these ______ parents would have never been born.

I see storm water collected on the top of the pool coverCryCryCryCryCry
This. 


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If I had a pool, I wouldn't want anyone wandering into it. Installing a fence is a must.
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charge tge grandma with neglegence
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