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Yeah, he says he's hurt because she refused to defend him in the media
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^^^ sounds like their marriage was over even before all if this happened...he's a slimy bastard for sure.
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I took a look at the pictures again and I will repeat that restaurant would have been TOW up.  We would be banned from ever stepping foot back up in there...RTAngry
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He actually has the audacity to divorce HER? Because she refuses to play along anymore and finally stands up to him? Ms Lawson, you are MUCH better off without him. Typical abusive behavior. This article is a proper spin for him to come out looking like the good guy. It actually is his job - publicist 




I'm divorcing you, Nigella: Saatchi breaks news to wife in exclusive statement to the Mail on Sunday and says he's 'sorry it's over'... but insists she put her hand on his throat too


  • Charles Saatchi has begun divorce proceedings against Nigella Lawson
  • Said he made 'heartbreaking' decision after she refused to defend him
  • Disclosure brings the couple's ten-year marriage to a bitter end
  • Saatchi was seen clutching Ms Lawson's throat and tweaking her nose
  • Pictures were published a week later in a Sunday newspaper




Multi-millionaire art collector Charles Saatchi has begun divorce proceedings against Nigella Lawson just four weeks after he grabbed her at a celebrity restaurant in London, The Mail on Sunday can reveal.

The former advertising tycoon, 70, says he has made the ‘heartbreaking’ decision to formally separate from the television chef because she refused to defend his reputation after he was pictured with his hand around her neck at their table. He told The Mail on Sunday: ‘I am sorry to announce that Nigella Lawson and I are getting divorced.

‘I feel that I have clearly been a disappointment to Nigella during the last year or so, and I am disappointed that she was advised to make no public comment to explain that I abhor violence of any kind against women, and have never abused her physically in any way.’

Heartbroken: Charles Saatchi has begun divorce proceedings against Nigella Lawson

'Heartbroken': Charles Saatchi has begun divorce proceedings against Nigella Lawson

The sensational disclosure brings the couple’s ten-year marriage to a bitter end after weeks of speculation.

Saatchi was seen clutching 53-year-old Ms Lawson’s throat and tweaking her nose for 27 minutes in horrifying pictures taken during an argument at Mayfair restaurant Scott’s on June 9.

 

A week later the images were published in a Sunday newspaper and within hours Ms Lawson had fled to a £10,000-a-week bolthole with her son Bruno, 17. They have not spoken to each other since.

Despite repeated pleas from Saatchi his wife has refused to answer his calls or return his text messages. Today The Mail on Sunday can reveal the true story behind the collapse of their marriage, the brutal aftermath of the ‘strangle row’ – and the devastating physical fixation that destroyed one of society’s most glamorous couples.

The sensational disclosure brings the couple¿s ten-year marriage to a bitter end after weeks of speculation
Nigella seen five days after the throttling picture was published

Distress: The disclosure brings to an end the ten-year marriage between Saatchi (left) and Ms Lawson (pictured, right, five days after the 'throttling' picture was published)

Shocking: The picture that started the scandal, showing the hand of Saatchi, left, around his wifes neck at Scotts

Shocking: The picture that started the scandal, showing the hand of Saatchi, left, around his wife's neck at Scott's

Saatchi reveals that on the day the pictures were published, he was ordered by Ms Lawson’s PR advisor Mark Hutchinson to apologise for the assault and admit he was ‘ashamed’. He flew off the handle and asked his wife: ‘Are you crazy, you know that’s not the truth.’

Nigella said: ‘I think we have no choice.’ The couple then had a furious row in which he told her to ‘pack her bags and go’.

'I feel that I have clearly been a disappointment to Nigella during the last year or so, and I am disappointed that she was advised to make no public comment to explain that I abhor violence of any kind against women, and have never abused her physically in any way'  

- Charles Saatchi

The following day, Monday, June 17, Saatchi voluntarily went to Charing Cross police station where he agreed to accept a police caution for assault. By then Ms Lawson had left the family home with her two children from her previous marriage to journalist John Diamond, Cosima, 19, and Bruno.

Ms Lawson is not aware of the divorce ultimatum being issued by her husband today and will be devastated by his claim that she is somehow to blame for failing to speak out in his defence.

Announcing his decision to start divorce proceedings, Mr Saatchi said: ‘This is heartbreaking for both of us as our love was very deep, but in the last year we have become estranged and drifted apart... The row photographed at Scott’s restaurant could equally have been Nigella grasping my neck to hold my attention – as indeed she has done in the past.’

Saatchi is said to have earned a fortune of up to £135 million while Nigella, daughter of former Tory Chancellor Nigel Lawson, has wealth estimated at £20 million.

Charles Saatchis dramatic statement to the Mail on Sunday
 

'It's heartbreaking but I've been a disappointment to her. I am sorry. It's over...' As Saatchi spells out end of the marriage, friends reveal how couple REALLY fell out

In the ugly aftermath of their fight at Mayfair restaurant Scott’s, Charles Saatchi and Nigella Lawson have faced an unbearable barrage of rumour and speculation.

The multi-millionaire art collector has been vilified as a wife-beater, his wife as the downtrodden victim of domestic violence. In fact, ­neither of these claims is true. 

After speaking to friends on both sides, The Mail on Sunday can reveal the most authoritative account so far of the heartbreaking collapse of the couple’s relationship. 

Once so passionate, their marriage has finally crumbled under the weight of the worldwide media storm unleashed by the publication of the pictures three weeks ago.

Couple: Charles Saatchi and Nigella Lawson dining outside Scotts restaurant in 2009

Couple: Charles Saatchi and Nigella Lawson dining outside Scott's restaurant in 2009

As Saatchi reveals in a statement to The Mail on Sunday today, the relationship is now ending in indignity, despair and divorce.

We can also disclose:

  • The real reason the couple were arguing at Scott’s: Nigella believes her daughter, Cosima, 19, should go to Oxford like her rather than take up a permanent role at The ­Economist. Saatchi disagreed.
  • How Nigella’s PR machine ordered Saatchi to confess publicly his ‘shame and humiliation’ at assaulting his wife – and Nigella agreed with this plan.
  • How the couple then had an ­explosive fight in which Saatchi told Nigella: ‘Pack your bags and go.’
  • How Saatchi believes that ­Nigella’s willingness to take her PR advisor’s advice over his own ­ultimately tore them apart.
  • How Saatchi feels he has no other option but to file for divorce because she refused to defend him in public and say he never hit her.
  • How the couple have not spoken a word to each other since Nigella left the family home after the pictures emerged on June 16, and she has refused to answer his ‘begging’ calls and text messages. 

It now seems hard to believe but when Saatchi and Nigella were first told, on Friday June 14, that a newspaper was preparing a story about a fight at a restaurant they genuinely thought nothing of it.  

Story: When the couple were first told a newspaper were preparing a story about a fight at a restaurant they thought nothing of it
Charles Saatchi leaves home after accepting a police caution for assault the day before

Story: When the couple were first told a newspaper were preparing a story about a fight at a restaurant they thought nothing of it

It was not unusual for them to argue, particularly in recent months, and so they carried on as normal, making plans for their summer ­holiday in Europe despite background tensions in their marriage. 

It was not until that Sunday morning, when they saw the images of the ‘grappling’ on the front page of a newspaper, that they realised the gravity of their situation. 

A friend reveals: ‘They both understood, straight away, how terrible the whole thing looked. They were appalled. Charles was utterly shellshocked. They both were. They just stood and looked at each other and said, “What are we going to do?” ’ In the end, it was this question – and their wildly differing responses to it – that sounded the death knell for their ten-year marriage. 

GRILLED FISH FOR FIVE YEARS

When your wife is a renowned chef it might seem like the passport to a wonderfully varied world of dinnertime treats.

Yet for the past five years Charles Saatchi has eaten only fish each night.

‘When he goes out to restaurants the chefs know to bring him his own off-menu fish. It is always steamed or grilled and there mustn’t be any oil,’ a friend revealed. ‘It’s the same at home. Nigella cooks him his own separate meal of fish. And he never eats any of the puddings she makes. She doesn’t mind, she finds it quite endearing.’

The art collector is known for his bizarre eating habits. In 2008, in The Mail on Sunday’s You magazine, Nigella admitted her husband had shed five stone in nine months by eating nothing but eggs, three for each meal, always hard boiled or scrambled.

As the couple stood, ­horrified, in the £14 million mansion where they built their marriage, they turned on one another.  

‘Charles’s immediate response was to say, look, these are not what they seem,’ said the friend. ‘He agreed they’re horrible but he knows that to a certain extent they’re also telling a lie. He wishes to God he hadn’t done it but he wasn’t exerting any pressure, or trying to scare her. He would never hurt her or any woman.

‘Nigella knows that but her response was to consult her public relations advisor who said, “No. Charles has got to make a statement saying he’s very ashamed and apologise for ‘assaulting’ you.” ’

The advice from PR agent Mark Hutchinson was, Saatchi believes, the grenade that truly destroyed their chance of reconciliation.

‘They had the most furious row, far worse than anything at Scott’s. At Scott’s they were fighting about Cosima [her daughter with first husband John Diamond].  

‘They were talking about whether she should stay at The Economist or go to Oxford University like her mother. Nigella loved university but Charles thought she should think about staying at The Economist. 

‘He was frustrated because it was Nigella’s daughter they were ­talking about and he felt she wasn’t listening to him. That’s when he reached over and – yes – some wine had been taken, but they both know it wasn’t assault.’

So when Mr Hutchinson advised Saatchi to make a public statement of confession, as the world was gripped with the idea of Saatchi as a ‘wife beater’, he flipped. ‘Charles said to Nigella, “Are you crazy? You know that’s not the truth. If I say that the police will be round and arrest me. Do you really want me to do that to myself, to make a statement that will make me look like something you know I’m not and when you know that’s not what happened?”  

Moving out: Miss Lawsons belongings were taken from the family home by removal men

Moving out: Miss Lawson's belongings were taken from the family home by removal men

‘She said, “Yes, I think we’ve got no choice.” That’s when Charles said, “If that’s how you feel about me, you’d better pack your bags and go.” ’

Nigella left their Chelsea home that same afternoon. The following day, in an ill-conceived attempt to put an end to the furore, Saatchi volunteered to go to Charing Cross police station where he admitted he had assaulted Nigella, 53, and accepted a caution.  

However, in a much derided public statement, he undermined his actions by telling the London Evening Standard, where he is a columnist, that he had done this only to avoid the matter hanging over them and that it was nothing more than a ‘playful tiff’.

'They both understood, straight away, how terrible the whole thing looked. They were appalled. Charles was utterly shellshocked. They both were'  

- A friend of the pair 

According to Nigella, this was the fatal mistake that put her in a now-impossible situation. ‘Nigella feels that Charles was foolish and wrong to state that the incident was a ‘playful tiff,’ one said. ‘It made it impossible for her to say anything supportive as it would look like she was covering up for him. 

‘Nigella has given a statement to the police that Charles has never hit her and she hoped it would be widely reported but it wasn’t. She is deeply private and doesn’t want to make any statement herself or have ­people pick over her marriage. 

‘She thinks the pictures are very humiliating.  She’s embarrassed and ashamed that she is being portrayed as a victim of domestic violence and her husband as a wife beater. 

‘If only he’d said in the first place that the pictures were horrific and he was very ashamed, she says she could have pointed out that he’d never hurt her.’

Instead, they are now painfully aware that the image of Saatchi gripping Nigella’s neck while she reels back will be the one that defines their relationship.

Ironically their relationship began, as it ended, in a celebrity restaurant. The first time they met was at a ­dinner at The Ivy, the West End haunt beloved by the rich and famous, where literary agent Ed Victor was hosting a dinner for the magazine editor Tina Brown.

Gravity: It was not until that Sunday morning, when they saw the images of the grappling on the front page of a newspaper, that they realised the gravity of their situation

Gravity: It was not until that Sunday morning, when they saw the images of the 'grappling' on the front page of a newspaper, that they realised the gravity of their situation

Among his guests were Conrad Black’s wife Barbara Amiel, Charles Saatchi, and Nigella. It was the first time Saatchi had seen ­the chef, still flush with the success of her first cookery book, 1998’s How To Eat, in the flesh. Ms Brown confirmed: ‘Charles asked Ed to seat her next to him as he had a crush. He was totally mesmerised by her all evening.’ 

But Saatchi would have to wait. He was still married to his second wife, Kay Hartenstein, mother of his 19-year-old daughter Phoebe. He divorced his first wife of 17 years, Doris Lockhart Dibley, in 1990, the same year he married Miss Hartenstein, a Conde Nast advertising executive.

Nigella, meanwhile, was married to journalist Diamond, father of Cosima  and Bruno. Diamond had been diagnosed with throat cancer in 1997, dying from the disease in 2001. 

Relationship: The couples relationship began in a celebrity restaurant, The Ivy, where literary agent Ed Victor was hosting a dinner for the magazine editor Tina Brown

Relationship: The couple's relationship began in a celebrity restaurant, The Ivy, where literary agent Ed Victor was hosting a dinner for the magazine editor Tina Brown

Saatchi was a great support to both throughout the illness. Two-and- a-half years after Diamond’s death, and apparently with his blessing, Saatchi married Nigella in a low-key ceremony at his Eaton Square home.

From the start the relationship was overtly – even oddly – physical. A friend says: ‘Charles and Nigella have always been very physical and demonstrative. He adores her while her love for him was like an addiction. She always talked about the smell of him, how much she loved it.  They’re a bit like teenagers. There’s always lots of stroking, kissing, playful banter. I have never been to dinner with them when they haven’t sat next to each other. 

‘They’re incredibly tactile. What people who don’t know them don’t realise is just how physical they are with each other.’

But Saatchi was not an easy man to live with. The Iraqi-born businessman could not have built Saatchi & Saatchi into the largest ad agency in the world, alongside his brother Maurice, without ruthless drive.  

His ex-wife Miss Hartenstein has cast light on his mercurial manner, saying: ‘When the light shines on you, he is charming and amazing and special. I know, because he shone it on me. Then the light fades and there is darkness.’

As they settled into married life, Nigella the ‘ultimate pacifier’ learned how to deal with his moods, but she was still scared of his sharp tongue. Indeed, friends say that while he is difficult when in a temper, she is fond of quoting that Mae West line: ‘I like my men to be men: strong and babyish.’

‘He can be difficult, he’s never pretended otherwise. It’s often the way with brilliant men. It’s true Nigella is scared of his temper and of him lashing out verbally, but she’s never been frightened of him physically. In private, Nigella has told friends, that of course he has never lifted a finger to hurt her, although he can be difficult and overbearing at times.’

It was Saatchi, ever the advertising genius, who is believed to have come up with the nom de cuisine, Domestic Goddess, which did so much to propel his wife to fame. While he does not resent her success, there is little denying that living with a global phenomenon has taken its toll.

In the past year they have grown distant and suffered tensions over the litigation involving two former close aides now accused of ­siphoning money from the couple. The friend said: ‘They have drifted apart. He feels that maybe she was getting bored with him, and was unhappy with the marriage. 

Married: Nigella Lawson with her previous husband journalist John Diamond

Married: Nigella Lawson with her previous husband journalist John Diamond

‘He is heartbroken – she is the love of his life – but he has instigated this divorce because he feels it’s what she wants or needs. Also because he feels so betrayed by the radio silence from her, despite his public vilification as a wife-beater.’

According to friends Saatchi has tried to contact Nigella countless times but she has refused to take any of his calls. One friend said: ‘He’s tried endless times... to say he loves her, to try to get her back and then just to discuss things, to ask her what she wants.

‘He’s distraught that after all he’s done with his life, this will end up being his legacy. He’s trying to keep busy, he’s working and looking after his daughter but we’re all worried about him. 

'Charles and Nigella have always been very physical and demonstrative. He adores her while her love for him was like an addiction'  

- A friend of the couple

‘Nigella’s agent only seems interested in protecting Brand Nigella - here and in the States – and seems to think it may look bad if she says anything in Charles’s defence. Whatever his faults, he’s not violent.’

Those closest to the couple have also told The Mail on Sunday that in the week after the row at Scott’s, their lives went on as normal.

‘Yes, they were having an argument that night in Scott’s and yes the pictures were awful. But Nigella left the restaurant crying because they’d had another row not because he’d threatened her physically. The pictures were taken the week before for Charles’s 70th birthday. The following week they ate at Scott’s again and had two dinner parties with friends. Everything was fine.’

But by ‘putting herself in the hands of her press agent’ that morning the pictures were published, a devastated Nigella has effectively ended their marriage.

A friend admitted: ‘In time they may well have split but it would have been done privately and with dignity. It’s hard to leave someone you still love even when you know you should. Charles is a strong, charismatic character, and she doesn’t want to be tempted to go back.’

Now, sadly, that avenue is no longer open to her.



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it a blessing in disguise for her that he's leaving her
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he beat her to the punch ..

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thats the funny thing about life, grass isnt always greener

and then his ex saying he never touched me .. lol that was funny
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Good riddance...she's probably heart broken though...
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Saatchi suicide threat rocks Nigella: Last-ditch bid to win back TV chef by desperate tycoon

  • Multi-millionaire art critic bombarded wife with texts and calls to contact him
  • Threatened to take his own life during 'ranting' phone conversation
  • Has also allowed daughter Phoebe to make allegations of illegality by Nigella
  • Stepdaughter, 18, has said she feels 'abandoned' after TV chef left home
  • Friends of Nigella left furious - 'It is the act of a madman,' one said

By ELIZABETH SANDERSON

PUBLISHED: 16:00 EST, 10 August 2013 UPDATED: 16:00 EST, 10 August 2013

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Charles Saatchi threatened to commit suicide in a bid to win back Nigella Lawson after the first stages of their divorce, The Mail on Sunday can reveal.

In a series of text messages and phone calls, the multi-millionaire art collector warned he would take his own life and begged his wife to contact him. The ‘harassing’ messages show the depths of despair – some friends  say madness – into which Mr Saatchi has sunk. 

The Mail on Sunday can also reveal that he has accused Nigella of potentially criminal behaviour and allowed his young daughter to make statements alleging illegality by her stepmother.

Split: Charles Saatchi threatened to take his own life in a bid to win back Nigella Lawson after the first stages of their divorce

Split: Charles Saatchi threatened to take his own life in a bid to win back Nigella Lawson after the first stages of their divorce

The revelations come as Nigella prepares to step up her cookery career, with plans for endorsements, another book and a new TV series to be filmed in Los Angeles in September. She has not seen her estranged husband since photographs of him grasping her by the throat were published in a Sunday newspaper eight weeks ago.

 

She has also refused to answer any of the messages he has been leaving on a daily basis.

However, the television presenter finally relented after Mr Saatchi, 70, said he would kill himself. Such was his despair, his 18-year-old daughter Phoebe also texted her former stepmother to say she was worried about her father’s state of mind.

Friends revealed details of his desperate behaviour after being ‘appalled’ that he allowed his daughter to attack Nigella by claiming her stepmother had abandoned her.

Fears: Saatchis daughter Phoebe, 18, issued a statement claiming she had been left abandoned by her stepmother Nigella

Fears: Saatchi's daughter Phoebe, 18, issued a statement claiming she had been left 'abandoned' by her stepmother Nigella

The couple spoke twice on the phone in the days after their decree nisi was granted on July 31. It is understood that the threats of suicide were made in at least one ‘ranting’ phone call.

According to a friend of the television presenter, she felt she was left with little choice but to contact him. 

The friend said: ‘Charles has been texting and phoning Nigella endlessly. One minute he’s pleading, the next bullying. Her silence has been driving him crazy. When she didn’t reply, he used Phoebe to get Nigella to talk to him, to tell her she was worried about his state of mind. He’s not above using Phoebe as a bargaining chip. In the end, after the threats, Nigella called him. The first conversation was quite sweet.

‘It was a case of, “please come back”. Nigella was sympathetic. She was going out somewhere and said I hope you don’t [do anything silly].

‘The second conversation was more difficult but she held firm.’

Last night a friend of Mr Saatchi confirmed that he had contemplated suicide in recent weeks as he struggled to come to terms with losing his wife and his reputation. 

It is said that one of the hardest things for him has been Nigella’s refusal to defend him against allegations of being a wife-beater – allegations Mr Saatchi insists they both know aren’t true.

The friend said: ‘Yes, he agrees he felt low and suicidal but he couldn’t leave Phoebe. He has been very up and down. He was just wanting some form of contact.

‘He is feeling very betrayed by Nigella’s lack of support and the fact she hasn’t stood by him or stood up for him in public. How difficult would it have been to issue a statement? 

'Charles has been texting and phoning Nigella endlessly. One minute he’s pleading, the next bullying. Her silence has been driving him crazy.'

A friend of Nigella's

‘Charles was brought to the brink of suicidal feelings and they did have a couple of conversations but Charles says they didn’t come to any understanding.’

The suicide threats come amid deepening concerns for the former advertising tycoon who has been acting increasingly strangely of late.

Yesterday he allowed his teenage daughter to issue a statement to a newspaper denouncing Nigella. 

Phoebe, his daughter by his second wife Kay Hartenstein, accused her stepmother of abandoning her and said: ‘She has behaved in a very cold-hearted way.’ 

Doting father: Charles Saatchi with young Phoebe at a party

Doting father: Charles Saatchi with young Phoebe at a party

The Mail on Sunday can reveal that Phoebe had also been prepared, last month, to accuse her stepmother of behaviour that was potentially illegal. With the full knowledge of her father, she gave a statement to this newspaper containing a number of criminal allegations that could not be substantiated. The claims highlighted the depths of bitterness now engulfing the family.

The Mail on Sunday took the decision not to report the claims.

Friends of Nigella’s are furious that Mr Saatchi should allow his daughter to enter the public fray.

One said: ‘How low can you go? We cannot believe he would do this. It is the act of a madman.

‘We just cannot understand why he would drag Phoebe into this. He is the arch manipulator – he wants to be in control of everything – and when you can no longer manipulate a situation, the need to manipulate becomes madness. This is not love, this is ownership.

‘During the course of their marriage he would say, “If you ever leave me . . .” ’

Another friend added: ‘The divorce is done, the marriage is over. Why can’t he let it go? When will she be free of him? As for using Phoebe, one of the first things Nigella was worried about when all this happened was how Phoebe was, and how to let her know because she was in America at the time. Her heart is also broken. She is a lovely, emotional person and of course she wants to reach out to Phoebe.’

Accusations: Phoebe, pictured with her stepmother aged eight, has been prepared to accuse Nigella of illegal behaviour as the family feud deepens

Accusations: Phoebe, pictured with her stepmother aged eight, has been prepared to accuse Nigella of illegal behaviour as the family feud deepens

Friends of Mr Saatchi say otherwise. Perhaps inevitably, lines have been firmly drawn between ‘Camp Charles’ and ‘Camp Nigella’ in what is becoming an increasingly toxic battle.

While friends of Nigella accuse Mr Saatchi of manipulating Phoebe, his friends insist the teenager is her own person.

They say she has known Nigella since she was seven and is very cross that her stepmother has not even called her. 

An ally of Mr Saatchi said: ‘Phoebe says Nigella hasn’t contacted her. 

‘She’s furious and she is genuinely very angry about the way her father has been treated and the way  Nigella’s allowed him to be portrayed in public. 

‘Meanwhile he’s very worried about Phoebe. They’re currently on holiday in Italy. He hired a yacht for Phoebe, her boyfriend and a couple of friends.

‘He hasn’t got any of his friends with him, it’s just him and the kids. This is for Phoebe after everything that’s happened.’

Coincidentally, Nigella is also in Italy, with her children from her first marriage to journalist John Diamond. She took Cosima, 19, and Bruno, 17, to Florence last week. They are due to return today.

She begins filming her American show, The Taste, next month but she will return to London in October to record the British version at Pinewood Studios in Buckinghamshire.  

The show, in which chefs take on amateur cooks in a culinary contest, is hugely popular in the States.

Nigella’s co-presenters, Anthony Bourdain and Ludo Lefebvre, will join her on the UK series which will be broadcast on Channel 4. While Mr Saatchi has descended into despair in the aftermath of the break-up, Nigella has quietly set herself back on track. She is not only a presenter on The Taste but an executive producer. She is also one of the few UK chefs to break America and the series should help swell her £20 million fortune.

Though Mr Saatchi issued a dramatic statement to The Mail on Sunday revealing his intent to divorce her, it was Nigella who divorced him on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour.

How the Mail on Sunday broke the news that Charles Saatchi was divorcing Nigella

How the Mail on Sunday broke the news that Charles Saatchi was divorcing Nigella

According to one friend, the decision took all her resolve. ‘There were problems in the marriage. When this happened she didn’t think she should go back to him but she did have feelings for Charles and she felt her resolve would melt.

‘He’s a very strong character, very persuasive. She realised this was the opportunity to leave and she needed all her strength.

‘She thought: “I’m out and the only way I’m going to stay out is not to speak to him”. Nigella now seems emboldened by her new-found independence.

Emboldened: Friends say Nigella feels more confident having left husband Charles Saatchi

Emboldened: Friends say Nigella feels more confident having left husband Charles Saatchi

Another friend said: ‘Don’t get me wrong, this has been horrendous for Nigella. She has been traumatised with how public and brutal it’s all been. She’s like a wounded animal. She’s had trouble sleeping, then there was the constant harassment from Charles and his endless messages. 

'But now Nigella is moving forward in a very positive way. She is putting her family first. Brand Nigella has never been stronger and she is determined to build on it. She’s absolutely throwing herself into her work.’

For Mr Saatchi, nearly 20 years Nigella’s senior, it has been very difficult. Days after the decree nisi – the first legal step to ending their ten-year marriage – he announced his intention to auction off 50 pieces from his art collection, including a four-poster bed by Tracey Emin. 

The works will be sold at Christie’s Thinking Big sale in central London in October, the same month Nigella begins filming her new show.

The art collector insists the sale is nothing to do with the divorce but there’s a certain poignancy to it as he and Nigella put their previous life behind them.

Despite their once happy marriage, it is the incident outside Scott’s restaurant in Mayfair  for which they will both be remembered.

Its impact on the national consciousness was illustrated at a recent country show, where someone had entered a vegetable carving competition with a tableau of the incident made out artichokes and named ‘Arty-choke’.

It promptly did the rounds of the internet.

A friend of Mr Saatchi said:  ‘It would be very hard for Charles if this was his legacy after all he’s achieved.

‘He’s still very angry but says he’s given up trying to contact Nigella. He’s stopped trying to work it out. He knows there’s no point.’



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He bluffed and lost.

They divorced so quickly ... I take it she left only with the assets she came with?
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