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Seems like you overthinking it and being insecure..You reading too much into them text. I didn't get the cheating vibe from them messages..LOL
 
Yeah, you need to have a chat with him and express your concerns. Can't really tell much from them text


Edited by EasterBell - Nov 28 2012 at 9:11am
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Easter you may be right, I've never suffered from insecurity but I can honestly say i feel that way around him because I like him so much it's annoying 
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I think it's just you. I and my other gf's have strictly platonic relationships with guys, and would do things like this for each other. When in relationships though we do use non-gender specific words/phrases if we will be around them in a way that may make the SO uncomfortable. 

Honestly, what can you do? Biitch about it? I mean...that's his friend and if they've been friends for a while-you now put your relationship in jeopardy. Or roll with it, yet keep him at arms length and not get too involved until you are sure you can trust him wholeheartedly.

This may not help but...one of the men I grew up with said men would fucc their female friends if given the chance. It's up to the woman to establish that it'll never happen, or that it's a possibility.
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&& this was the conversation last night after he told me they were going to the beach early in this morning and the person was traveling about 2 hours to see him. 


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote EasterBell Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:26am
Yeah, you found someone that, with time, you can truly fall for, which is probably why you are having those feelings.  Yeah, seems like, for now, he is being honest and trying to let you know you can trust him..
LOL @ you saying that you ain't worried but you on BHM posting about trust issues..LOL
 
Just communicate with him..


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okay good to know Lol thanks guys, this was going to drive me cray cray lol 
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you have trust issues with him

you say it stems from past relationships so I get that

that fact that you are posting texts (no shade) shows that you need to be reassured by others that all is on the up and up

if he wasn't away, would you still feel like this?

I mean say yall just didn't see each other for 4 days (still in the same city though)....would you think he was "cheating"


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probably not, we live relatively far from each other so we really only see each other on weekends anyway. 

I know y'all I'm just bugging right now lol 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


you have trust issues with him

you say it stems from past relationships so I get that

that fact that you are posting texts (no shade) shows that you need to be reassured by others that all is on the up and up

if he wasn't away, would you still feel like this?

I mean say yall just didn't see each other for 4 days (still in the same city though)....would you think he was "cheating"
good points..
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Originally posted by _leah _leah wrote:

probably not, we live relatively far from each other so we really only see each other on weekends anyway. 

I know y'all I'm just bugging right now lol 


lol okay well you know what I mean, say 2-3 weekends went by

I agree you are over thinking it

we can't always say "it's him" when we know we have our own issues

and for all we know it could be him but if you are already on your inspector gadget from jump then we can't really say he is or isn't doing anything to cause you to feel this way


Edited by SamoneLenior - Nov 28 2012 at 10:32am
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