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My husband would have a fit . Cry 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Bunnyahh Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:18pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

oh look at all yall cosigning with the thx.  Still doesn't negate the fact that yall flip flop.  My inititial post was about " He clearly wasn't taught boundaries or respect for personal space"  Which EASILY can be applied to the white girl in the class. 

 


Why yall wanna get mad at her violating, but not at him violating?  She wasn't trying to hurt, rape or kill Nala either.  Just being a little curious(in the wrong way of course)


How old is that boy?
And you're comparing his thoughts and actions with a white adult?
Knowing the way they think and act?

A 5 yo kiss ( inappropriate or not) compared with some grown ass white girl clawing in your head to see if its a weave or not?
Really Bunny?
I expected a little better from you.

I still think the kiss was a cute moment that y'all manipulated to be something sinister .
That other thread wasnt the same at all
instead of focusing on the DIFFERENCES, focus on the SIMILARITIES.  Back to the original point of my FIRST post in that thread, he wasn't taught boundaries or respect for personal space... PERIOD, neither was the yt girl PERIOD.  idc about alladat reaching & criminal intent bizniz.  That wasn't my mo,it was yall bringing that up


Right about now Bunny you aren't making sense.
Focusing on the similarities?
They are different situations with different circumstances consequently they incite different reactions.

Anything else Bunny?
ermahgerd!!!! u can't let go of the differences?  This totally reminds me of the SL incident.  ok cool beans.  Have a nice day Miss Jones
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Its just a penis.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Its just a penis.

Can I touch yours?
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

ShockedShockedShockedShockedShockedShockedShocked
 
Just less than 1 year ago, opinions have drastically changed. Wah gwaan BHM?? Confused
http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/fired-4-not-allowing-transgendered-in-ladies-room_topic328558.html?KW=fired
 
eta: typo

 

those were grown women in that dressing room, not children.
 
But Macy's also has children using their dressing rooms.


but there are also dressing rooms in the children's section for children. children were never mentioned in that original thread.  they are mentioned in this specific instance. there is a difference so idk why you want to paint a very broad brush.

FROM THE OP: A Washington state law mandates that Evergreen State College allow a middle-aged biological male use the women’s locker room. The college’s changing and showering facility is also used by two high school swim teams and young children.
I'll keep this short (since BHM decided to fucc up my first oneAngry)
In short: Both situations are very similar in that children still use adult fitting rooms b/c if they're small enough (as in this OP), they'd be with their parents. SIMILARLY, their is adult guidance in both situations. It was not the children in this situations that's refusing the transgender from the rooms, it's the adult's there. So if you looks very well, even a glance should tell you these are two very similar situations.


Edited by MizzAmirah - Nov 04 2012 at 12:34pm
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

I would never want any type of man in my daughters locker room .
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Originally posted by dee1672 dee1672 wrote:

IMO, that is still a man because of his genitalia. He should not be allowed to use the same locker room as females, irrespective of his age or the age of the females involved. This is a very slippery slope.....

No it's not. Just don't let anyone with male genitalia in a restroom meant for people with female genitalia. People who want to make things difficult can kiss my black ass as I file a lawsuit if my child were to ever be exposed to that foolishness.
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this story has me thinking about an issue that been ongoing in the lesbian community for a while now.  theres been case when mtf transgendered persons have been trying to force their way into the lesbian community, claiming that they are now lesbians and deserve the same dating opportunities...anyway. i always saw it as men just once again exercising their control over women and im wondering now if this isnt just more of the same.
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

this story has me thinking about an issue that been ongoing in the lesbian community for a while now.  theres been case when mtf transgendered persons have been trying to force their way into the lesbian community, claiming that they are now lesbians and deserve the same dating opportunities...anyway. i always saw it as men just once again exercising their control over women and im wondering now if this isnt just more of the same.
Shocked SMH. how can a person claim Lesbian Transgender status ?

Edited by india100 - Nov 04 2012 at 12:38pm
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

this story has me thinking about an issue that been ongoing in the lesbian community for a while now.  theres been case when mtf transgendered persons have been trying to force their way into the lesbian community, claiming that they are now lesbians and deserve the same dating opportunities...anyway. i always saw it as men just once again exercising their control over women and im wondering now if this isnt just more of the same.

lol wow ppl stay doing the most...being in the lesbian community doesn't automatically equal obtaining a lover
i dont even understand what that means...there isn't some official lesbian community where all lesbians go to conduct business...i dont understand the issue lol geezus
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