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Originally posted by EasterBell EasterBell wrote:

Did the older cousin take the game back to the store...
 
Yeah, that was too much and what was the purpose of recording it.


I think it was to humiliate the kid for going on fb and acting hard

I dont see the problem tbh
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Omg I couldn't finish watching...Too much.

I see where he was going but he coulda stopped at 1 or 2 hits. By then he proved his point.
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I don't agree with recording discipline. Too many people seem like they just want a pat on the back for being "tough" parents/guardians/male figures. 
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Stealing gets people killed(black teenagers especially). A few body blows will teach him not to steal. I'm sure his father is not around so the cousin stepped up. If his cousin did this when he was 12 then he wouldn't have to result to doing this while the kid is 17. Trust me I'm a mother of small boys and at a certain age the start smelling themselves. They are perfect little angels right now cause they're still small.

BUT HUNNNAY.....Just the thought made me start going to the gym just for the day my sons want to flex. LAWDDDDDDDD I think I might just end up wrestling him.

i was just having this conversation the other day. LOL i already wrestle them. thing 1 and thing 2 try to double team me occasionally...gotta always remind them whos in charge. GeekLOL
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That's nothing like he'd get in the real world for doing the same thing to the wrong person. He'll learn.
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

I understand.i call it tough love. 

yeah, i think it was just tough love and i think he was trying to help his cousin understand the consequences of the behaviors these teens have today.  it should've never been posted for the world to see though.  

i'm one of those people that also believes in making your kid stand on the side of the road with a sign as a form of punishment though. lol


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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Too much.

 He wasn't trying to teach him a lesson for stealing. He was beating him up out of anger because he disrespected him. He used the stealing as an excuse to hit him smh
all of this. he's an asshole
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Originally posted by SimplyPut SimplyPut wrote:

He wasn't hitting him to punish him for stealing. He was hitting that child because he told people that his cousin wasn't gone do nothing to him, probably after taunting from others about his cousin taking his game. That beating was not to save the child's life or teach him a lesson, it was for the cousin to show he"s still big and bad. I think he felt like the child was challenging his street cred, and wanted to defend his name. IMO this was not about the child and more about the cousin's feeling, so I have no respect for it.

I agree. 

Minus the video taping, this is how one of my brothers dealt with my two older nephews. I would cringe when he went punching them in the chest but I kept quiet unless it got out of hand. I kept quiet because my brother has asshole, machismo issues (like the guy in the video imo) and speaking up would probably fuel his fire. 

Anyway, I understand what he claimed were his intentions but I hate that this was taped. It puts a target on the boy's back and people might start trying him because they saw him weak/crying, and the boy will probably try that much harder to prove how tough he is. 
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I don't feel sorry for him.
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Too much.
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