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    Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 4:46pm
Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

I remember some time ago this woman went on Oprah and said that if her children were to die, she would be extremely sad. But if her husband were to die, she didn't know if she would be able to go on. Basically she loved her children, but was IN love & deeply connected with her husband.

She caught hell for it. Moms everywhere were pissed.
I don't see anything wrong with the way she thinks.
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Kids, the end
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Life isn't fair
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The question isn't fair
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

imaginary kids,

not even the hubby?


cold world. 

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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

Not that I'm a huge promotor of the King James Bible, however when you look at the Bible as a whole, you will find that the order of priority is this:

1. God - God comes first before all else. We cannot be whole human beings without Him.

2. Spouse - Your spouse comes second only to God, as you are one flesh and each half of the whole. However, neither can be whole without God.

3. Children - Your children come third. They are a big part of your family, and are the fruit of your marriage. Nothing else comes before your children, except your spouse and God.

4. Everything else - Everything else, including school and your job take a back seat to your family and God.

While there is no one scripture that outlines this priority list, it can be found when you study all of scripture. Each element is mentioned in some fashion in some scripture, either Old Testament or New Testament. Some of these passages have been posted already.

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how can someone who is not there be loved or come before your kids or husband...i don't get how the mind bends that far.  what does this mean in a tangible way?  like how is it shown, displayed, or felt?


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Kids first because they grew inside of me and I brought them into the world

But!!! some people breed ain't sh*t kids...if my child is certified crazy then I'm gonna leave them alone the only person I HAVE to keep in my life is myself

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Love is limitless, without definition, everchanging.
I doubt any human would ever realise the full potential of their capacity to love

How can you quantify if you love one more than the other... its a different kind of love so apples and oranges.

Its like comparing my love of mangoes and my love of cake... I couldnt just choose one
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smaison doesn't care. 
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

me. 



yes? 
the thread judges didnt agree with your answer
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