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    Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:48am
Somewhere between 1 week and 1 month. I tend to move on quickly. I'm good at swallowing pain though. Ppl tell me I'm really strong but I just bottle things up and then they don't exist anymore. It's not strength, it's a cop out defense mechanism I learned during times of unhappiness growing up but it works for me. I'm not a "look back" type of person except when it comes to one relationship but even then it's a happy thing, there was never a real mourning.
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Two years
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its been two years this week since my break up, i miss him sometimes but im not thinking about him everyday like before, i also have a distraction or two so that helped
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yeah it can take a while to 'get over' a breakup especially if it was a long relationship/serious.
But  how long before you move on/date again? whether you're 'over' the person or not. Folks married for 20+ years still not over their high school sweetheart lol, and will tell you that.  

But  I sorta think that the longer you go without putting yourself out there to date, the longer it will take to get over the person.  I guess it's a conundrum though--if your heart is broken you don't want to be out there dating, but if you aren't out there dating your heart will feel broken much longer.

eta: I say fake it til you feel it.




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depends on how much gas you have in your car
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Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

For me it depends on the gravity and length of the relationship. I try to move on Asap because honestly I do not know how long I have on this earth and I do not want to spend it grieving over someone who does not want me anymore.
man...youre good. *takes notes* my last break up was horrible im still a bit wounded from it. *sigh*
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its been like 1-2 years for me, still ain't completely over it. 
guess he just really messed me up 

i never been the get a rebound type person right after a break up
call me boring but im just not into it *shrugs*

the thought of dating *shivers*

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dating again doesn't mean your over the ex though. 
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I guess it depends on what "being over" someone means.

It's been two years and I still love my ex. We have a child together so we talk everyday. For awhile we weren't on good terms, but now everything is good. He still loves me. He still talks about marrying me and us being a family.

I don't know what the future holds but even if we never get back together, I'll always love him.
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Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago, I wouldn't say I'm 100% over him but I've accepted the fact that we will never get back together and have started to moving on.
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