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    Posted: Jul 11 2014 at 2:41am
You are beautiful the way you are.Men make fun of me cause I'm not skinny and I don't dress like kim K or beyonce.I'm 28 and I still struggle with my body issues.Keep god first and know that he loves you the way you are.
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oh gawd damn...

i hope this isn't good ol' JayAtlanta with his "light skin/dark skin" thing again..

He's been doing this crap for years.. using different names, genders, etc.,

he has this thing about dark skinned girls being ugly, and loving light skinned girls..

He's so damn delusional, that at one time (May 2014) he posted that he was going to be the new owner of BHM.  He stated that He and Russ were "gravy"..

people fell for that and started kissing his as**.. the guy has a mental problem. 

Sometimes, the posts are from a "dark skinned" girls perspective, then he'll come back from a "light skinned girls" perspective..

everytime  any of us vets come in and bust him?  he vehemently says it's not him..  then someone will post a private message he sent them, saying how the "dumb as*s" member fell for his posts..

If this is him?  a lot of you vets must have forgotten, and drank the kool aid. 


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don't forget there is a whole world outside of where you live! btw where do you live? college is coming soon, and that is a new opportunity to get closer to the life you want to live choose a place that you will find friends!
Do your parents know how you feel? do they support you? Do you have siblings or any friends like you?

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Society does not LOVE anyone! and IA with the other posters you need to work on SELF-LOVE girly! start by learning about other women with embrace their own beauty! also surround yourself with images that feature your beauty! And if things are so bad where you live PLEASE MOVE! but if the problem is with you, you have to start with you, lovely one.
One book to start with is "don't GIVE it away"
http://www.amazon.com/Dont-Give-Away-Self-Awareness-Self-Affirmations/dp/0684869837

please post web pages and books that can help this sister... maybe something she can relate to
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You need to learn to love yourself before you can love any guy or have a guy love you.

I bet you are gorgeous!!!

I'm a dark skin gal myself...like the others said, don't let these close minded folks make you feel bad about your skin tone
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HugI bet your skin is gorgeous. Yes there are dumb, close minded brainwashed ppl who prefer ligth skin and put down dark women, but not everyone is like that! It sounds like you are surrounded by morons. Have you considered going out of state for college?

I have been battling depression my whole life. You should message me if you need someone to talk to
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a lot of light skin men say they love dark skin women.  dark skinned women are beautiful too, its not right that assholes and mentally trained monkeys have made you feel less than. the world needs you! please smileSmile you will recognize your beauty one day i promise
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im dark too… even though i may see on TV and videos that light skin is preferred.. it doesnt stop guys in real life from being interested in me. 

i have seen the ugliest, huge, just…. all types of difficulty having dark girls who are happy and date. 
sounds corny but there really is someone out there for everyone. 

i think you need to learn to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to. 

unless youre somewhere like… russia or iceland.. i think its mostly all in your head and what you project and the way you come off is what may stop people from wanting to get to know you better. 



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Originally posted by mozambiquegirl mozambiquegirl wrote:

Thank you vm. I've tried all that - hair makeovers, new makeup, changing style so many times etc. nothing works. That's why I'm so close to giving up


What do you mean by "nothing works"

And I don't mean to be harsh but there's no way to change how society thinks so you're gonna have to just accept it....

There's something about everybody on this earth that society doesn't like..

You said you like the way you look so I don't see what the issue is...


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hey Mozambique I have similar issues as you, although for different reason. Ive been depressed since I was a teenager, and at 32 I cant say im close to over it and only recently begun making progress to get over it. I just think part of your problem is you feel like an outcast for several reasons and is pin pointing it to the wrong source. society does put lighter skin on a higher pedestal, and im guessing youre an immigrant, in a mostly white environment. even though you can change your appearance to some degree, those changes can only go so far and your basic appearance will remain the same. youre conforming to the wrong standards in which you feel are superior, so again your appearance wont change much, but the standards you conform to can. Im no mental health specialist, and I know these things take time, but from my own experience I realize there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and knowing its there feels better then thinking all hope is gone.
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