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    Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 3:48pm
why is this controversial? 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 3:09pm
naw girl. don't do nuffin'. It ain't gone help u anyways. *shrugs* just teach your boys and pray u don't get attacked in your lifetime.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 2:54pm
Man, I need to take a self defense class and carry a little weapon. I would feel at least 10% more safer.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 1:07pm
Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

I don't think anyone is anti self-defense class. I think mostly people are tired of this same ol answer to this question when the topic comes up. People who know self denfense get sexually assaulted all the time. Now what? If we want effective change, there needs to be an answer that addresses the root of the problem


I think all rapist should go straight to prison or give the evil the death penalty . The courts allow serial rapist to reoffend until they kill in most cases . Take the ones we Know about off the streets for life to began . Until rape victims are treated fair in the system , nothing will change while we suffer . I need to leave now . Getting mad thinking about it. Not at you .Hug 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:55pm
I don't think it's the same contestant that was a product of rape
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:53pm
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I think since her mom says she was raped in an alleyway by a stranger  that in her mind she's only saying what she wish her mother could have done.

The problem is, most rapes are not like what you see on Law n Order SVU. They're usually committed by people you know, people who are in authority over you, or involve some kind of intoxication. Which means knowing self-defense will do jack squat to help you.

And having taken a self-defense course, man do you know how tired you get after fighting for just a few minutes? It's not realistic to expect that to truly help you. Now a taser would help. Maybe women should lobby for rape taser laws.
Self defense classes saved my life twice maysay . My energy level was never that high until the attacks . I know some women that panic and freeze up . I agree . Most rapes are not like LNO ..


I'm glad it did. I think self-defense classes are great because a lot of what you learn is stuff that isn't just intuitive....plus you learn to be more aware in general...and it increases your confidence (at least it did for me). I'd rather people have more information than less. It just doesn't solve the rape problem.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:45pm
I don't think anyone is anti self-defense class. I think mostly people are tired of this same ol answer to this question when the topic comes up. People who know self denfense get sexually assaulted all the time. Now what? If we want effective change, there needs to be an answer that addresses the root of the problem


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:36pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I think since her mom says she was raped in an alleyway by a stranger  that in her mind she's only saying what she wish her mother could have done.

The problem is, most rapes are not like what you see on Law n Order SVU. They're usually committed by people you know, people who are in authority over you, or involve some kind of intoxication. Which means knowing self-defense will do jack squat to help you.

And having taken a self-defense course, man do you know how tired you get after fighting for just a few minutes? It's not realistic to expect that to truly help you. Now a taser would help. Maybe women should lobby for rape taser laws.
Self defense classes saved my life twice maysay . My energy level was never that high until the attacks . I know some women that panic and freeze up . I agree . Most rapes are not like LNO ..
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:32pm
May, I was wondering if this was the same woman. That's probably where her mind went with that answer. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 10 2014 at 12:28pm
I think since her mom says she was raped in an alleyway by a stranger  that in her mind she's only saying what she wish her mother could have done.

The problem is, most rapes are not like what you see on Law n Order SVU. They're usually committed by people you know, people who are in authority over you, or involve some kind of intoxication. Which means knowing self-defense will do jack squat to help you.

And having taken a self-defense course, man do you know how tired you get after fighting for just a few minutes? It's not realistic to expect that to truly help you. Now a taser would help. Maybe women should lobby for rape taser laws.
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