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    Posted: Apr 01 2014 at 3:31pm
we were full term
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I wasn't dying to get some after four weeks but when I was ready it was different at first.
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Melikey... I have heard of natural ways to turn babies. Check it out.

Wildfire, natural birth is amazing and wonderful.... With a string epidural lol. Did you have a c-section?

I'm sure it isSmile. LOL

yeah, i had a section. Went great.

in recovery, i could hear muffled sounds from the labour ward. Um, i will pass LOL




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The normal wait time post vaginal delivery is 6 to 8 weeks.  If you had an episiotomy, sitz baths prior to intercourse will help tremendously, along with messaging the perineum area.  Dude will have to take it easy though, no roughness as of yet.LOL If you both can get pass the leaky boobs and exhaustion, have fun.  It took me 3 months before I even wanted to be touched again.  Oh and remember, you are VERY fertile after delivery so be careful if you don't want 2 in diapers.Nuke
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Melikey... I have heard of natural ways to turn babies. Check it out.

Wildfire, natural birth is amazing and wonderful.... With a string epidural lol. Did you have a c-section?
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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

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Its tightness, the pain from giving birth seems to.be gone, but if he moves a certain.way, the area where i tore hurts. But OB says im.completely healed
you should get that checked out. i tore too but it never hurt in that area after the 6 wks.Confused
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Did they give you an episiotomy? I heard that is what messes you up.

No, they didn't have time and i just tore.

ok, i read that natural tearing heals better anyway. 
i'm learning all i can about both vaginal and c-sections because i don't know what i'll be able to have yet. so basically two different birth plans for me. i wasn't going to allow an episiotomy if i went vaginal. 
 
i'm carrying twins and the worst fate ever would be if i tried and labored one out vaginally, but the other one needs an emergency c-section. they call that a double whammy and i am not here for it at all! that's why I'm leaning toward just scheduling a c-section because that freaks me out more than anythingCry... i'll find out in couple which one my Dr. allows me to do in a couple of months i guess.

Im so comforted by the knowledge that if I should want another child, it would be an automatic csection. The thought of natural labour scares me to deathCry

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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Oh okay. I hope it all works out. I'm a twin and my mom had to have a c-section

aww, were you full term or a preemie? 
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Oh okay. I hope it all works out. I'm a twin and my mom had to have a c-section
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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

Everyone says an episiotomy is worse, oh and ive seen videos and looked up stuff lots of women deliver twins natural and safe

yes, my Dr. said it's a 40% chance i can do it naturally, it depends on if the first baby is head down. usually they can reach in and grab or try to flip the 2nd one even if it's breach, but if that doesn't work then it has to be a c-section. if the first baby is breach or transverse i won't have a choice though and they'll just schedule the section.


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