| Twisted_Angel wrote:|
I was like this for awhile too...after I broke up with my baby daddy I was single for a year..no sex, nothing. I'm very uncomfortable having sex with a man if we aren't in a relationship but anyway..
I just focused on me and my daughter..bettering myself and I did literally bump into him one day
My mom mentioned something the other day...she said its more women than men these days, population wise and if you sit around waiting for a good one you might miss out. Things are not like the old days its 2014 and there's nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man..I never thought of it that way but I do kind of agree..
The guys that stare but don't speak
Geesh - YOU with the string of abusive relationships and the ‘nothing but féd up relationships with babies’ have the nerve to give relationship advice? DUH! Who do you think you are kidding? What you think no one’s gonna read that last (of many) féd up posts you wrote about the current loser you are with? Step off.
One of the WORSE things a woman can do … is to 'approach a man'! He will be flattered and try to sleep with you and YEAH - HE WILL DUMP YOU! Why? Because the game is over. DUH!
@OP I already gave you advice – take it. If guys stare and don't approach you … mainly it has nothing to do with looks .. it's about the vibes you send out. PERIOD.
If you are STUPID enough to approach one of these guys ... that means YOU are doing the chasing so your stock has dropped 100%. Women that are 'somebody' and know it - attract men .. and then pick and choose the best of the lot. Women that are desperate etc … approach men.
He will flatter you, have a gleam in his eye, bed you .. and then HE WILL BE GONE and then you will be thinking he’s a liar, he tricked you and ‘all men are dogs’.
Sure women and men are sexually equal these days. You can approach a guy just like a guy can approach a girl. You can even sleep with as many guys as guys sleep with women. Knock yourself out!
HOWEVER, this has NOTHING TO DO with actually finding a real RELATIONSHIP with a guy such that he falls in love with you! Oh heck no! That would be another situation all together!
Do not pursue men because … that way lies HEARTACHE!