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    Posted: Mar 16 2014 at 7:51pm
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well i like pda and partake in it but no2
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definitely #2 
i dont like pda 
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#2. Idgaf about him saying he loves me and I don't do PDA.

As long as he doesn't make me feel unattractive, I wouldn't mind not getting compliments all the time.
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I don't care for the #1. From past experience too much #1 make me feel uneasy and untrusting.
Please don't tell me, show me.
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Funny... I have more of a #2 when I'm used to #1.. 

I'm learning it all depends on your love language. Words of affirmation is big with me. I like to HEAR that you love me. Actions are important too, but I think I place words of affirmation over acts of kindness/service
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I'm in #1 now. Its the worst. He tells me he loves me but doesn't do anything to show it. I've had fu$k buddies that spent more time with me than he does.
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Well actions were once thoughts.
You can't 'do' love without first thinking it, and since love can't be kept to the Self, it needs to be expressed in all forms.
It is highly unlikely for a person feeling and thinking love to do it without saying it as well.

I'm not saying he can't do it without saying it, but to my mind, that would indicate that his mind's desires are (selfish) fighting against his Self's desires (which is to share itself with me in all ways)

Now most people fall into this category where love in concerned. All of your life your society conditions your mind to separate and build itself up, simultaneously your Self is longing to do it's purpose, which is to team up and build up. The mind masquerading as the Self of the person is now in a state of confusion and shock. ("What is happening to me?")

This is why most men lose their ego when they find their wives. Ego/ self service and love cannot operate at the same time, and the energy of love is just more satisfying to the Self of the person than separatism. (Of course as with everything in nature as we know it, there are times when things don't go according to this "natural law")

2 would be my option only if I too love the man, and not just want to be a part of his physical experiences.


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neither. ive been through number 2 and it was painful tbh.
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