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    Posted: Mar 16 2014 at 5:10am
I would fight my sisters if that were my niece
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

This type of behavior doesnt occur over night.Rarely is it without reason. Elsewhere her parent(s) dropped the ball. Im sorry if your 13yo is running away and exhibiting hoe tendencies you failed as a parent. Accept your role in the matter and improve.
I saw this on facebook, and I said this was wrong, and in my opinion the result of poor parenting. Everyone e-attacked me. Saying things like spare the rod spoil the child...IMO, you are a terrible parent if your 13 year old child is gone for 3 days without your knowledge of your child's whereabouts. A good parent will have all the contact info of all friends/parents/work numbers. There should have been an amber alert for this girl. If my child was 3 hours late I'd be calling the police, and starting a search party. Aint ish parenting begets ain't ish children. The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. I don't know this man, but the fact that he is brutally beating this child in front of cameras speaks volumes about his character. He ain't ish. Social Services needs to intervene in that household because something in the milk ain't clean.
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Failed parenting.
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Don't like it.

She might literally be a ho though.
Bein' out for 3 days *&%^$#@Ein' nigguhs sounds like she got a pimp somewhere. 
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

we can assume she's a ho but not that she's being abused.

niccas boy. 


Nothing but the truth!!! I can't help but shake my head at some of the comments in this thread. Disgusting.
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13 yrs old, gone for 3 days, that hair and dress ....sounds like some failed parenting
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Kids will try it hopefully she knows better now.
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LOL....you are making assumptions based on a 19 second clip. You don't know whether they talked to this girl or not. 

There aren't. I don't know where you live, but a lot of these programs are funded by the state and have been cut drastically by state legislation. It's not about asking, it's about them being readily available in all states and being required when a child has a history of misbehaving or leaving the home for prolonged periods of times. It should be required as a preventative measure from her leaving again, getting into trouble, etc. Same with her parents. At the time a parent reports a child as a runaway, they should be required to be in a specialty program to help the child as well as the parent. That way there are no loopholes or excuses. Right now that is not the case. That would have done two things 1) made sure there was no abuse going on 2) helped the child. 

The assumption that she left the house because of abuse is flat out wrong. That cannot be determined by that clip. It's reaching. You can claim that she was being abused in that clip, I'm not even arguing against that, but saying/implying she ran away because she was being abused and that her parents never talked to her before about her behavior can't be determined by a couple of seconds. 

This is getting repetitive. I just dont agree....which is fine, this is a hot topic right now and a lot of people have varying opinions. I feel it's counterproductive to assume and judge a situation, and the people, in 19 seconds and come to the conclusion a 13 year old left for 3 days to escape abuse and that her parents never exerted any effort to talk to her about her behavior. I don't know these people. I can't make that claim or even imply it. I'm pretty sure even CPS would need to do an investigation before coming to that conclusion, but okey doke. 

I feel like they handled the situation wrong (the verbal abuse, hair pulling, taping) but her getting a WHIPPING was NOT wrong. The whipping she GOT was wrong....but her getting one was not wrong in of itself. So we can agree to disagree....


Edited by OhMyCurlz - Mar 15 2014 at 8:29pm
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we can assume she's a ho but not that she's being abused.

niccas boy. 
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No one had to assume there was physical and verbal abuse present in the video they were proud to show the world? Im sure shes not the first girl that dude held by the hair.


If this the idea normal whipping i see why so many are anti spanking..lol Im just gonna stop tho..im lucky i ended up my parents.
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