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    Posted: Mar 17 2014 at 10:37pm
It really depends on how serious you two are. I'm notorious for pulling disappearing acts. the times in the past when I've tried to let them know I wasn't quite interested in them it always turns into an argument no matter how nice I said it. This best thing to do is cease ALL contact and block them from all forms of interaction. I never date people I run in the same circle with and I live in a large city so its easy to avoid people.

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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

say you went on 3 dates with a person and you realize that you do not like them. do you:

a) call them up and tell them you don't want to see them anymore or 
b) do you just stop contacting them, answering phone calls, text, etc. 
is there a c? 


I've done this a lot and the one thing I've learned is that when you tell them you are not suited for each other blah, blah, blah in a noce way .. you can never get them to go away. They don't take you seriously - they think you are just teasing them - sometimes they get mad at you and whatnot ... then I think WHY did I saw anything at all.

But when you stop returning phone calls,texts etc... they get the message and go away. Geesh you don't owe these guys (that you don't even want) anything. They'll get over it.

So to me ... it depends on how serious you are about getting him to go away and not draaaag it all out with false hope for him.

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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Smaison you're single?


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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Smaison you're single?

Didn't she say she has a man?
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i usually do B...but they keep hitting me up...going through mutual friends to get to me when they been blocked...all dat sheit.
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I would say B but i wouldn't want that happening to me let him down easy and just get it over with
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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Hmmm.  This is a great question.  Back when I was dating I had a fool-proof strategy called hidingLOL

I'm thankful everyday that there was no social media and no cell phones when I was actually single.  Y'all got problems I would have never been able to deal with. 

If for some crazy reason I had to go back on the market I would probably end up with a stalker like Miss E did.  I hate hurting ppls feelings but I would be very blunt. 


girl yes. It's too hard to play now. I'm taking notes though in these bhm threads jic.LOL
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C -when they contact you let them know how you feel politely.. (don't hit em up)
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