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    Posted: Mar 03 2014 at 8:05pm
Not backhanded but I hate the "you look nice today" as if im ugly all the other days lol
Just leave the"today" off.

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I don't give backhanded compliments.  I either say what's on my mind or nothing at all.  The last and most annoying backhanded compliment involved a former co-worker who figured out that I had never had sex and wasn't in a relationship.  She was all "I admire you sweetie(she's younger than me) but I couldn't do it" all patronizin like...then proceeded to "enlighten" me that there are decent men and insisted that she should set me up with one.  Ermm
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I just hope ole girl isn't a snitch cuz I served her ass right back. I don't wanna talk to HR.
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Jeezus princess. Lol!
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Shade! I gasped out loud on the train. The lady sitting next to me looked at my screen like what happened? Lol
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Just got told today, "You dress your ass off to be a 'thick' girl" (read fat).

Damn...you couldn't just say you like my outfit? Had to be a for a big girl, huh?

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You're big but shapely.

I want to look like you when I get old.

Your skin will clear up once you have that baby. . . I'm sorry, I thought you were still pregnant. 

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These are a few I've heard and I used the "wanna look like you" on my aunt who used to say I was big but shapely when I was a size 12. Dead


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I give backhanded compliments, but I am trying to work on it. Some people deserve them though. 

( I told someone I liked her LV bag, then I got close to it and said the stitching was interesting Cry, she deserved it though)
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Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I love giving compliments   

this. i give compliments all the time.Clap

you never know whose day you could make by telling them how nice they look


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I give backhanded compliments but it's always intentional. I only direct them to my family members, close friends and people who know that I dislike them. Only for giggles (except for those whom I dislike) and they usually return equally backhanded compliments.
 
Return the favor and have fun with it! If not, leave that shady heifer alone.
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